Jewish Marriage Values

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Denali McGlashan –Mrs. Crocco “Jewish marriage is the decision to confront the challenge of the real world. The Jew, when he marries, enters not only marriage, but the world- the world of the Jewish community, of concern for the survival of the Jewish people and of care and responsibility for total strangers, As a man-wife unit the married couple has a new voice.” – Rabbi Maurice Lamm Jewish marriage, as any marriage addresses many aspects of human belief and is therefore rich in precise and detailed core values. These values are reflected in the traditions that dictate everything from the preparation and ceremony to the life within a married union and “the world of the Jewish community” as stated by Rabbi Maurice Lamm. To begin to…show more content…
These are outlined in the marriage contract known as the Ketubah. The Ketubah outlines the rights of the woman within the marriage in the case of the hsusbands death or a divorce occurring, it also outlines basic conjugal responsibilities of the husband to his wife. The groom signs the Ketubah and it is given to the wife during the wedding celebration. The position of women in marriage is a reflection of Halakhah or Jewish Law, within the standards of a jewish community the men and women even in marriage are seen as separate regarding duties but equal in…show more content…
Examples of these techniques would be the blessing of the Torah by the groom on the wedding day, this custom symbolizes a hope that the couple will follow Torahs teachings as a guide throughout there entire relationship. Another symbolism used within a Jewish ceremony is the bride and groom fasting and reciting prayers during the day of the wedding before it proceeds, this symbolizes a cleansing of the bride and groom and there newly found innocence in entering the relationship. This is a useful tradition as it makes both parties equally open to change within a relationship as they become unified as one. To demonstrate the fragility of love and commitment and the care that must be taken in maintaining this balance within a healthy Jewish marriage, the groom wraps a wine glass in a napkin and stomps on it to shatter it. Not only does this act as a metaphor for fragility and balance within the sanctity of the marriage but also re-enforces a larger concept of the fragility of a belief and the discipline that is necessary to maintain its
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