Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been

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Critical Paper Where are you going, where have you been "Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been" is a story written by Joyce Carol Oates, written in the 1960's shows that personalities are not generated from inside, but shaped by outside circumstances. Connie being the protagonist of this story, clearly shows her inner conflict. Her struggle comes from her unstable relationship with her family. She was deprived of a father figure making her desire attention from boys. For example, Like any other female adolescent, she is preoccupied with make up, boys and music. Connie's first experience is when she meets Arnold Friend - described by Oates as one who appears at first glace as "a boy with shaggy, black hair, in a convertible jalopy painted gold"(427) – He tricks her by luring her in with his sly words. He even changes his look in order to draw Connie to himself. Connie is a girl whose perception of the world has been shaped by her family and "culture," causing her life to be literally split into two. At home, she acts as if she were an innocent child that is not concerned with the dynamics of the opposite sex. But once she ventures into the "real world" she seeks male attention. Having the feeling that Connie can not get any satisfaction at home she resorts to outside sources, making herself a victim to boys. When the "masked" man came to her door, Arnold uses more of his conniving devices as he frequently makes strategic use of the word "love", reinforces the tragic reality of domestic situation, and promises his utmost respect and loyalty in an attempt to make her want to leave with him. He knows that she is starving for true love and uses that to his advantage. Ultimately, Connie does not better her life by running away. She is only tricked into leaving with Arnold who only tells her what she wants to hear. Although we do not know exactly what occurs,
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