The two generate an interesting debate; however they might lose their credibility because Robert brought the fact that Jacqueline was married which is not job related and could be discriminatory to unmarried applicant while Paul he continually refer about Sonya’s enthusiasm and could be the selling point but this is not also offer any substantial reasons for her preference. One thing that I observed for the two is that Robert and Paul have a very good relationship – when they do have disagreements they are understanding and accepting of their differences and compromise when necessary. Robert doesn’t think too highly of the swinging bachelor persona, but it hasn’t affected job performance – anyway, it’s diversity that makes life
According to Spoors et al, Lane found that increased economic power did not lead to increased happiness. Once we have enough to meet their basic needs, happiness tends to lie in the quality of our relationships. In addition to having a strong family network, belonging to some kind of community or social group will also contribute to our happiness. We tend to gain self-esteem and a sense of belonging from being part of a group with whom there is a shared identity and common values. Most groups provide social support and depending on the type of group for example religious groups, will also encourage optimistic
- about relationships as their non-disabled peers. The desire to be accepted and successful is important to most of us. To love and to be loved and to have friendship is the most natural thing in the world. Even today, people are often ignorant about issues of relationships, sexuality and disability. People with physical disabilities may not have had the same opportunities of learning about themselves or others because of restricted social contact (mobility and access problems are probably the main reasons).
Becoming a caregiver entails a deeper, more trusting relationship between giver and receiver and can strengthen bonds between families. A further benefit to today’s carers is the government legislation to enhance the support provided, both financial and practical. This formal support, alongside informal support from family and friends to ease feelings of isolation can have a favourable impact on the lives of caregivers. Although care has long been considered a normal facet of family life, the impact on the families capacity to care has only fairly recently came to our attention. Many care relationships are reciprocal, family members support each other through their own choice and this can be beneficial to all.
The first friendship is the “Friendship of Utility”; using each other as means. This relationship cannot be considered long term for people’s needs and wants change over time. The second friendship is the “Friendship of Pleasure,” may that be physical or emotional. This also cannot be considered an enduring friendship, for what people consider pleasurable also changes with time. Lastly, there is the “Complete Friendship”, this is a friendship based on goodness; here one loves the friend for his/her own sake with a genuine love of friendship.
In this way there should be happiness and acceptance of one another. It can be hard at first to develop an essential line of communication, but once you start, openness can evolve. Openness is the result of it and can be the cement that bonds everyone. A family has many parts, besides the people involved. With love, honesty and communication, comes appreciation of everyone.
Jeffery M. Leving and Glenn Sacks write in “Women Don’t Want Men? Ha!” about increasing amount of women willing to stay unmarried and the actual role that men play in the family. Lots of newspapers and other sources of mass media write about the tendency of growing the women’s self-reliance and their belief that there is no necessity for being married. The reason is that women have become more independent, have their successful careers, so they can financially support themselves. But the authors argue and say that this facts do not reflect to the real life truly and the idea of happy single woman is just an illusion.
Being able to love is something you have to have within yourself. The three dimensions of passion, intimacy and commitment will continually take great work to continue a growing relationship; it is not a given in yourself or with whom you chose to love. Many miss the opportunity to experience such a love because they fail to realize it takes work. You can have the passion in the relationship; which is more the desire to want to be with that person, and you can have the intimacy of the relationship; which is the feelings of being close to someone, but if you do not have the commitment in the relationship then there is no foundation to build on. The commitment is where the two of you made a decision to love one another and maintain that relationship.
An important aspect of being single is being “free” to do what they what, when they want. People can spend their money without consulting a partner or thinking about the financial needs of children and many people prefer to be single by choice because of this reason. Liberal thinking tends to accept having a partner does not constitute that we have to partake in marriage, but instead collect multiple partners and select who is the right one for them. Some people have marriage in the back of their minds, but if they enjoy being single, marriage will not be a part of their immediate future
My dream it that we can all live in a happy world, where we can all be friends with everyone, without discrimination of color, religion, nationality and most importantly that we can decide what it better for us. But I know that some times that is not possible because some people do not have that ability, and sometimes their disability to think right is very dangerous in our society. I rather have criminals and mentally ill persons medicated than having to think all the time about what could happen. I know that this way I can be sure in some way that I live in a not totally but in somehow safe world. I think it is sad that government has to force people to be medicated but it is very