Outside Of My Dating Essay

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Anderson English111 29November2012 Outside of my Race How does it feel to date a person of another race? Is it breaking the “norm” of society? Is it creating conflicts in one’s family? Is it going to cause an upset in a person current friendship? Or is it going to affect one’s societal appearance? This is my story of a black woman at the age of 19 dating a 21 year old white man .The effects of dating outside of my race changed my appearance in society, it affected my immediate family, and changed my learned behavior of another race. First, the experience of dating a white man created a stigma amongst my friends and family as me not having self-esteem, and that I was becoming “a white people lover”. Not all my friends were accepting of my dating a white man, and once they started to know him, they did not approve of his wrongs and how he was irresponsible and living off me. I started to figure out which friends were “true” friends and which ones were “fair-weather” friends. It affected me in a positive and a…show more content…
When growing up, we did not speak in a negative way regarding other cultures. So, when things were directed towards me regarding my interracial relationship, it hurt me deeply to think my family did not approve. I was also told by my parents that I would be disowned if I continued to date a white man and would be cut out of their lives. My sisters did not understand why I preferred to date a white man and thought I must be depressed. My sisters also thought I needed counseling and needed to meet men of my race. They also did not understand what I would have in common with him and how different our lifestyles were. The only family member who did not have an opinion or say regarding my interracial relationship was my brother. It did not bother him one way or another, and he supported me through the

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