Interracial Relationships Essay

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The following words come to mind when I think of interracial dating: miscegenation, exogamy, and out-marriage. In teenage slang terms this can be interpreted to “jungle fever,” “yellow fever,” or even “cracker fever.” However you decide to put it, an interracial relationship consists of two individuals of different race. Although society today seems to be more accepting of interracial dating, there are still a lot of opposing views, especially coming from the parents of individuals in the mix. I am Filipino, and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend who is African American for about 3 years now. My parents’ opinions on my decision to date interracially heavily effect me because they are in opposition. They do not approve of my boyfriend because he is, in their words, “dark.” I have noticed a great trend of parental affects amongst Asian Americans who decide to date African Americans. More so, Asian American females who decide to date African American males. I feel the outcome of whether or not these Asian/African couples last depends greatly on the negative or positive attitudes being portrayed from the parents. So the question in mind is whether or not parents truly dictate whether or not a relationship will last. This issue becomes a societal factor because aspects such racial issues and cultural differences can be stirred up when two individuals of different race decide to merge in a romantic relationship. Literature Review: I read a few books researching on many viewpoints on interracial dating. To begin with, Bryan J. Grapes, author of Interracial Relationships, stated that Interracial marriage in America plays out to be the social institution that is least understood and most distorted by myth and bias, also being considered a social taboo. As we see that racism still exists in society, the same applies to interracial couples. In some societies

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