My First Bonding Wedding

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Growing up my mother always said, “Let’s go bonding.” Bonding means a lot to her. Every time someone hung out with someone else she would say, in an embarrassing way, that we were bonding. Last year was the year of my older sister’s wedding, and I did my share of bonding with everyone in the wedding. I’m not the person to go bond with people, so you could say my relationships were all very weak. My pour relationship wasn't just with my sister, but it was also with my friends and family. Because of the wedding, I learned much about the importance of relationships and the value of family. Stephanie was twenty when she got married and I was eighteen. At the time of her engagement, she was away at Johnson Bible College in Knoxville, Tennessee, and we never really talked. We basically didn't talk at all. When the news of the engagement came, all my relationships changed. Like most brides, well at least what I thought, the brides had their best girlfriend to be their maid of honor and asked them in person to be it. As my sister and I never talked without fighting, so I thought she wouldn’t ask me. Really she didn't; it just happened. I think my mother told her that I should be the maid of honor, and then Stephanie told my mother to ask me. My mother did and that is how our bonding started. Since I was the maid of honor, I had the lovely honor of planning the wedding shower for about thirty to forty other girls. I never really met my sister’s friends, planning the shower was really hard for me. Talking to people I didn’t know was very difficult. Not just the friends and family, but socializing was so stressful because it was so hard for me. In normal every day life I am not the planning type of girl, and that had to change fast. I had to bond with people that I never even knew, calling them, writing, talking to them in person. My oldest cousin who lives in Atlanta came
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