People will often ask what makes a good or long lasting relationship. In truth there is no one answer, what works for some will not work for others, it’s about finding the balance that suits the both people. At the beginning of a new relationship, the excitement of being in that relationship helps us to not see the things the other person does which may cause annoyance. At this stage in the relationship both parties find themselves faced with everyday realities which means they have to work at the relationship to find and maintain a balance. When couples are faced with life changing events or illnesses the balance changes quickly and they will find themselves in the difficult position of facing their own feelings and fears while trying to support each other.
Another example could be, if a member of the family tries to remove themselves from a specific role they have surrounded themselves with for years, this is usually difficult due to the other members of the family resisting that particular change. All five of the cases that have been discussed have one major ingredient in common. Each individual has been misunderstood by one or more people that surround them in their daily life. The perception of these individuals is misled due to lack of knowledge toward a condition in which the afflicted person is unable to act or react to situations deemed acceptable to societies standards. Take Jim for instance.
Some carers may not feel they can approach the person because the assume they are violent. If a person gets violent it is due to frustration and not being able to express themselves. It helps if you know how to approach the person so they dont get adjitated. You should always try to form positive relationships with clients even though they may not remember you a short time later. Some people just think a person dementia does not need to be spoken to bacause they may not be able to understand anyway.
Dependency on the vulnerable person for money, shelter or emotional support can arouse resentment, sometimes abuse. Caring for a vulnerable adult can be trying and frustrating. The carer may feel disempowered and trapped. It is important to consider the strength and stability of a relationship prior to the abused requiring care. A relationship which has been strained for a number of years may deteriorate when there is a need and expectation for the carer to be providing
Criticisms from supervisors and peers often are met with emotional listening resistance. We hear only the negatives and do not attend to offers of help or ways to improve our performance. We are over stimulated and do not accurately receive messages that could help us grow and develop. Barrier Three: Criticizing Personal Style Rather Than Messages. We often find ourselves criticizing the way a message is presented and ignoring its content or value.
This is displayed throughout the story It its clear that they are both afraid of change Bailey didn’t want to somewhere new and the husband didn't believe in interracial relationships. The passage from when the Grandmother talks about Bailey's overall attitude in “A Good Man is Hard to Find” depicts this theory “He didn't have a Knox 3 naturally sunny disposition like she did and trips makes him nervous” (Connor 450). In conclusion,..... The actions of person can reveal a great deal about a person's
Another concern was his broken promises, a common statement was “every week more promises” (13) and many felt that they were not fulfilled. There were people that blatantly bashed him in these letters but there were also those that still possessed some faith in him, and would beg for a change. One writer wrote“…wont you think this over and see if you cant change this program a little so these little faces will still look on your picture with a
Generalized Anxiety Disorder BEH/225 All of us worry about things occasionally. Financial stress, illness, or loss of a spouse can cause us to fear the unknown. There are aspects of life that we cannot always control, and that in itself can be a scary thought. Sometimes, it may feel like the “what ifs” of life, the things we cannot control, begin to consume our thoughts. Most of us may feel this way periodically, when the fear or worry is justified.
Parents and children are no longer spending time talking about what went on in their day or, stopping just to give each other a hug. This lack of communication can lead to low self-esteem because children begin to miss that interaction and structure with their parents or even siblings and just the feeling of that extra reassurance and love to turn to if they need it. Also because of the debt, stress and low self-esteem, there is a lack of being able to trust. So, not only are previous and current relationships hard to maintain it is hard to develop new
Benefit or Burden? Growing up, we are faced with many pressures. Many of the pressures may give us an uneasy feeling and result in poor judgments or decisions. In Hughes case: his aunt, the priest, and the congregation put tremendous amounts of pressure on him to become a member of the church. “Langston, why don’t you come?