Life Changing Experience

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Flannery ENG 111 October 14, 2013 Life Changing Experience The moment I realized that I was going to have to leave my grandmother, I knew that I was going to have to grow up. From the age of six months, my grandmother was the one who took care of me and nurtured me as a mother. My mother left me with my grandmother, shortly after my grandfather died, so that she can go abroad and get a job to provide for me and the rest of the family. I was too little to realize what was going on but my grandmother never failed to let me know how much my mom loves me and that she did for me and to better herself. I have always admired my mother for this and I realize that sacrifices are often necessary to persevere. I was blessed enough to be able to go to a private school because my mom was able to afford it for me. She sent money so that I can go to school and often sent me toys. I talked to her a lot and that was the only relationship we had. I never really hugged her or kissed her and to me, my grandmother was my mom. She taught me a lot of what I know and I love my grandmother dearly. This is the reason I feel like the day she told me that I was coming to America, to finally live with my mom, is my life changing experience. The plane ride was the longest ride I have ever taken. I rode with my stepdad’s mother and I cried the whole trip. My cries were not loud, but the silent cries that involved tears of sadness that went along with heartache. I have never been away from my grandmother for more than even a few hours and it was devastating, not only for me, but for my grandmother also. I really believe that we have that bond where no matter how far apart we are; we know how each other are feeling. I tried to look forward to the positive effects that were about to happen to me but I just couldn’t. I was nine years old when I first lost the love of my life,

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