Gender Roles By Richard Rodriguez Analysis

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Maria Shallop Professor Johnson October 7, 2014 Compare and Contrasting Essay #2 The importance of gender roles and what we see as family values is an extremely significant topic in modern literature today. Americans have come a long way in establishing a strong foundation as to what they consider culture, family, and gender roles. We have distinguished the roles between what we think men and women should become and what we believe is an acceptable way to act. Americans today, seem to be struggling for a definition as to what they believe is a happy family, whether that means growing up in a traditional household, in a single parent home, in an extended family, or in a foster home. Richard Rodriguez’s essay “Family…show more content…
He emphasizes how many women are seen as the caretakers of the family. Yet not satisfied with this role, Rodriguez says “But lots of us know of moms who are sick and tired of being mom, or only mom…Today there are moms who don’t want their husbands’ names. And the most disturbing possibility: What happens when Mom doesn’t want to be Mom at all? Refuses pregnancy?” Rodriguez speaks about the pressure society puts upon humans to be a certain way or rather to fit into a norm. He challenges this idea by hypothetically giving a situation where a woman does not want to be stereotyped into a category and does not want to fit in with how gender roles are “supposed” to be. Sullivan elaborates on how it should not be considered “bad” to be a homosexual. Not all men should be straight and “masculine”, as gender roles often demand. Sullivan says “The small percentage of people who are gay or lesbian were born…are with the capacity to love and the need to be loved…I will never forget the moment I first kissed another man…Never for a moment did I actually feel or believe any of this was wrong.” Sullivan mentions how he does not understand why society made it so wrong to be gay. However, he felt joy and did not think it was wrong the first time he kissed a man. He believes this is who he is and disagrees with how society imposes gender roles. If a man is gay, it is not wrong. He does not need to be straight or masculine to be considered a man. As…show more content…
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