When taking the simpler route, the individual does not show persistence because they want to easily pursue their desire. Risk taking involves being a bit reckless and dangerous with no regard of being cautious. Since people with low self-control they only think of themselves primarily, being insensitive to others, they may be short tempered and handle situations with little ability to communicate verbally. I had a positive guardianship growing up in my household. If both my sister and I were out of “control” according to my mother, she would not hesitate to spank us, which is now looked down upon in today’s society.
These two kinds of people always despise each other on campus, but sometimes they also envy each other. Obviously, two characters like these seems could never become friends. However, they have the same goal: to get into the scare program. Because of this, they have to work together and spending time together lead them know each other well. Once they find the similar part inside their mind, they become bosom friends.
The short story “The Hitchhiking Game” by Milan Kundera focuses on a “game” in which a man and woman react to the cultural expectations of society. Both characters seem to rebel against the rules and expectations of society because of the worries about how their actions will be perceived. Due to these high expectations we see little hope for individual freedom for the characters. The lack of individual freedom can be specifically seen before the “game” with the shyness and modesty of the young man’s girlfriend. Both characters are looking for a way to express their individualism and resort to playing the “game.” Neither of the roles that the characters take is culturally accepted, but doesn’t completely restrict their individual freedom.
Frank and Clegg at first seem free from particular social chains. Social chains being particular laws or moral codes that may in some way shackle an individual. To an extent this is true for both protagonists, however they are prisoners of their own psyche, also that of their parentage and physical inadequacies. Clegg is bound by his obsession for collecting beautiful objects, his position in society, and the struggle to adapt to the freer modern society of the 60’s. Frank on the other hand does not struggle with class issues, nor does he fail to recognize the world he lives in.
In the tale the child’s predicament is the foundation of almost all empathy in the town. “There is no vapid, reckless happiness”; almost all the inhabitants realize that “they, are fond of the kid, are not free” from the “dreadful justice of realism” that anyone, is just as imperative as every other, must be dehumanized for the democratic benefit of the mass. Understanding of the kid “makes achievable the nobility of their structure, the sadness of their music, the perceptiveness of their knowledge” it pushes as well as motivates, offers empathy as well as robs the individuals of their innocence. To dispose of the happiness of countless numbers for the possibility of the joy of
These negative feelings are due to dads not regularly seeing and interacting with their kids. Comparably, couples without kids experienced barely any change in their sense of family well-being. Consequently this creates a since of detachment between all the parties involved. For moms who usually are the primary care taker of kids after the split it usually is an economic stress trying to raise kids on her own. Alas at she would jump at the very opportunity at a new relationship whether it’s healthy or not, and quickly sign herself up for another relationship that will end on bad terms, just for the help.
This ideal is reinforced by ‘Green’ having Hazel state that “you don’t get to choose what hurts you in life, but you do have some say in what makes the pain worth it, I like my chances” which shows that Hazel is determined to be a “normal” teenager as she feels too alienated from normality and the people around her, except from her first love, Augustus Waters. Relationships play a fundamental role of “The Fault in Our Stars” and “Othello”, the longing journey of Othello and Desdemona’s forbidden love, the teenage romance between Hazel and Augustus and the stereotypical alienation between characters create these idealistic themes of the journeys explored. Othello’s love for Desdemona was glued by a deep connection and trust which was unstuck and pried from by Jealousy and deception, as Iago states “it is the green-ey’d monster, which doth mock the meat it feeds on.” This shows the irony of what Iago is implying as he is the cause of this jealousy and deception. During the early chapters of “The Fault in Our Stars”, Hazel is
Firstly, when someone is totally devoted to their love interest it may be hard to turn a conscious eye to their imperfections and faults. She will be under the desired illusion that he is loyal, that he love her and would dismiss slightest suspicion of cheating. Idolizing their partner in their minds for long time would lead to a major breakdown when the veil of deception is lifted thus thought of being cheated on is too heavy and the reduction of self-esteem will cause the woman to be in large circle of uncertainty about her own personage. Furthermore, by returning to her abusive partner she is trying to prove to herself that she is able to keep them and resurrect their old bond, but mostly trying to resurrect her own self-assurance that she is still worthy. Forgiveness can also be a reason to stay, some people have big hearts and are easy to forgive due to kindness but that does not mean they will necessarily forget, the old bond will never be the seem and asking about the partners whereabouts will no longer be a matter of manners only but to assure herself.
In my opinion, when the writer states that teenagers dare to involve with death threats, I am disagree. Actually, having a favourite idol will make them think wisely before doing something dangerous that of course may harm them. This is because they take the good examples of the idol as their spur to move on their life. Many girls admitted Bieber gave them support through unpleasant times like parent’s divorce, loss of someone close or just the hardships of being a teenager (William, 2011). In the second idea, I am agree with the writer as he states that girls incredibly wrapped up in relationships that are in reality are nothing but fiction.
But, unfortunately, such tries often end with nothing good and children suffer even more. On the whole, I think that such attempts are useless, as they will bring more harm than good both for parents and children. Kids have to be brought up in a loving and facilitating atmosphere that shows them how to live in this world and in what way to organize relationships with people. Thus, when living in the atmosphere of constant quarrels and offence, children can grow up to be too shy, or even aggressive. Looking back into my past, I think that I am completely satisfied with the state of events that were in my life.