Discourse Community That Change My Life

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It only took one night, two hours, and a long speech to change my life forever. My brothers and I were sitting in total silence in our living room waiting for my father to come in and talk to us after being asked to do so. I being 14 and my brother’s only being 12, we didn’t realize what was going to happen next. Still sitting in silence, we heard our parents quietly talking so we wouldn’t hear. Words were spoken in hush tones but with pure anger behind them. Then an unexpected silence occurred followed by a randomly slammed door. Then all of a sudden, my dad comes out of their room and into the living room with a duffle bag, to find us with blank looks and scared faces. By the look on his face he gave the impression that something was wrong. But we all knew this was no little argument to just forget about, but instead a huge dilemma that would change all of our lives forever. For as long as I could remember my parents got along great. No big arguments, no yelling and no door slamming. I…show more content…
I have had to cope with my crazy and angry nights and I still do everyday. My family is the most important discourse community that I belong too. Conventions were created throughout this divorce process. Some would not be mentioning family fights with others unless they were extremely close, and not bringing it up around my immediate family because everyone has their own opinion and that would only cause fighting. The most important convention I’ve learned through this is how to rely on my self more and take responsibility to help my mother out as much as possible since there is one less person. I have both feelings of this experience changing my life for the better in a way, but it mostly changed it for the worse. In the past two years I’ve learned how to be a more active member for my family, and not hide my feelings. My family has become so close since this hardship has

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