On Being A Blessing By Nancy Mane

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Disabled but Still Living Disabilities are a hard thing to cope with, whether you’re born with them or they develop overtime. In “Single-Handed Cooking” by J.J. Goode and “On Being a Cripple” by Nancy Mairs both authors write about their disability and how it effects their lives. The essays both include how the authors feel about being disabled as well as what they’re able to do whilst having it. Both “Single-Handed Cooking” and “On Being a Cripple” entail that even those with disabilities can live happy, thorough lives. J.J. Goode lives his life freely despite his arm disability. Like Mairs they both want to live as though they are not disabled; however, unlike Mairs, Goode has not experienced what it is like to live without a disability.…show more content…
At 28 she started tripping and dropping things; she had begun to develop multiple sclerosis. Goode never got to experience a “normal” life, unlike Mairs who had lived without a disability for 28 years prior. Originally she was told it was a brain tumor which changed her view on life. Since then she truly accepts the fact that she is disabled and even jokes about it calling herself a cripple. She says “One may also lose one’s sense of humor. That’s the easiest to lose and the hardest to survive without” (Mairs 48). Although she’s lost almost all usage of her left hand and still has a blind spot in her right eye, Mairs continues to do the things she loves. She doesn’t dwell on the fact that she can no longer run, let alone walk without a cane. While she is upset by this, she instead thinks about the things she can do such as, “writing, teaching, raising children and cats and plants and snakes, reading, speaking publicly about MS and depression, even playing bridge” (Mairs 48) In the essay Mairs talks about two women, both with MS, living completely different lives. One lives as though she’s not disabled, while the other suffers through it, almost giving up her life to MS. When she was on her way to California for a family trip, she experienced an exacerbation but went to California anyway because she wasn’t sure whether or not she’d ever be able to make it there again. Mairs refuses to give in to the negative thoughts because she doesn’t want to make any decisions for future Nancy because she doesn’t know what future Nancy
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