Demonstrative Non-Verbal Communication

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Demonstrative communication is usually a form of communication that uses cues (primarily non-verbal). This is surprisingly a majority of our daily communication. Learning how to read these cues effectively can lead to insight about who a person really is and what they are thinking or how they feel about certain things. Below I will list some of the major areas of demonstrative communication. Facial expressions & gestures This is likely the most used and most easily read of the body language types. The most basics are recognizing happiness (smiles), sadness (frowns), confusion (furrowed brow) to name a few most common. Though they are the easiest to read, that also means it’s the easiest to fake. There is such a thing as “smiling, but not smiling”. This can be described as not smiling with your eyes and may not be recognized by all. And sometimes certain expressions can be misread because some facial expressions look very similar to one another. An example of this would be someone deep in thought may look angry. However there are such things known as micro-expressions, which are smaller and much harder to find in one’s face for most people. Though these are much harder to spot, they happen on an unconscious level and are more truthful than the bigger facial expressions. Gestures are also up there with being a universal non-verbal communication method. Waving, pointing, waving over and counting are universals; however other gestures are more culturally sensitive. However, these are more easily faked since these are used more consciously than facial expressions (which are more unconscious in nature). Paralinguistics (tone of voice) This type is different as it is uses verbal but yet is separate from it. The way we present spoken language can also speak much more about somebody’s thoughts and feelings than the actual words themselves. The tone, volume,
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