Adolescence Observation Essay

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Running head: Adolescence Observation Paper Adolescence Observation – My Little Brother Devon October 1, 2008 Danielle Cooper For this paper, I chose to observe my little brother Devon, who is fourteen years old and just started high school last week. I do not live at home anymore so I went there for dinner and to hang out with him and my dad and to observe him. I did not want to tell him what I was doing to make sure that he was behaving naturally, but after he said hi to me he wanted to go upstairs to his bedroom and talk to his friends on the computer. I asked him to bring his laptop downstairs and to visit with me while he did that. Very quickly it became obvious to me that his friends were basically the most important thing in his life. I have always known that his friends and his social life were extremely important to him, as well as other adolescence, but I did not realize the extent of it. In the reading they explain that friends and peers become one of the most important things in an adolescence life. More than just having friends, Santrock explains that, “being popular with peers is a strong motivator” (2004). I could see that in my brother’s behaviors. He was always trying to come up with cool things to say and fun things to go and do. Devon even went as far to tell me that he thinks is one of the popular guys at school and he is stoked about that. I tried to talk to him about why it was so important and really the only answer he could come up with is, “that’s just the way to be cool and be someone.” I understand the need to be accepted, which is definitely what he explained, but it made me sad that that was his only way he thought he could be cool in high school. Basically everything that Devon did for the rest of the hour of observation had to do with friends. He literally did not get up from his computer, going back and forth from his

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