The Way We Lie

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In “The Way We Lie” Stephanie Ericsson depicts the different ways that humans lie and the justification behind each. The first lie that she discusses is the white lie; it is harmlessly telling an untruth so that no harm is done by telling the truth. Ericsson then proceeds to explain a facade which is a deception that is caused by false actions. Next, deflecting and ignoring the facts are similar because both involve not addressing important facts in an answer. Omissions are purposely leaving pieces of information out of an answer or not answering at all. Stereotypes and groupthink are very similar in the sense that they both create lies based on a group’s actions or feelings. A straight forward lie is known as an out-and-out-lie. Finally, Ericsson addresses dismissal which is avoiding an answer and delusion which is making an excuse a fact. Ericsson feels that lying is an important part of life; in fact, it tends to minimize the number of times someone’s feelings get hurt and allows success and happiness. I also believe that sometimes a lie is less harmful than telling the truth. In some situations a lie is the best way to react because the collateral damage caused from telling a lie is not worth it. If everyone told the truth one hundred percent of the time the sense of morale and measure of happiness in the world would be significantly lower. Lying is not the best response all of the time but when the situation warrants it a lie may have to be told. Works Cited Ericsson, Stephanie. “The Way We Lie”. Back to the Lakes: A Reader for Writers. Ed. Thomas Cooley. New York: W. W. Norton, 2009, 320-327.

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