The Corruption Of Love

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The Corruption of Society: Love While times have changed, the idea of love has nonetheless remained the same. Phaedrus’s speech in Plato’s Symposium makes statements that relate to how powerful love was and still is today, by controlling people’s lives and actions. Shame drives individuals to be the best that they can be in order to be seen desirable in their lover’s eyes. Although the idea has remained the same, the exchange of love has been altered. Love is no longer between a man and a boy, but more commonly between adults: traditionally between a man and a woman. Phaedrus states many powers of love in his speech. He speaks about the honor between one and their beloved and how it is a great virtue in a relationship. The point that Phaedrus made was that a man of any nature would rather suffer humiliation in front of a great mass of people or all of mankind itself than to suffer the loss of respect or the loss of dignity in front of their lover. This pertains to modern society, that to suffer indignation in front of a lover, as seen by the male, would be to suffer the loss of one's masculinity and the inability to protect his lover. Whereas, for the female it may be the fear of inferiority that keeps her strive towards honor a constant venture in the relationship. In any case, it seems that the main reason Phaedrus's point is valid is because one of the driving forces in a relationship is the fear of inferiority, fear of humiliation, and fear that they may lose the other person's respect. Phaedrus builds on this point by stating that a true test of one's love for his partner is the value of their life (179e). Comparisons between the fates of Achilles and Orpheus are brought up to emphasize his point. Achilles sacrificed his own life in an attempt to get revenge for his friend. As we learn from the legend of Achilles, a man was rewarded for the value he put
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