Describe The Relationship Between Abelard And Heloise

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Abelard and Heloise During the middle ages, Western Europe advanced in social organization, technology, and education. The church inspired several dominant ideals which were motivated by the Christian faith. The church controlled everything and everyone, and was the dominant force of the time. The church governed marriage and sex. Christianity was the matrix of medieval life. Everyone was affected by these ideals, but not everyone lived up to these ideals. From the documentary, Inside the Medieval Mind, the church relied on fear and shame to control people. Sex is considered filthy in the Medieval Times, where virginity was the highest virtue. Women were thought of as Satan’s bait and poison for the souls of men. For the act of lusting people from the twelfth century thought they’d be destroyed by God. Women were thought of as the devil’s gateway; after all it was “Eve” who disobeyed God and persuaded Adam to eat the apple. The church was offended by the idea of sexual pleasure. It policed sex and had confession manuals. The church had the authority to restrict love making with one’s own wife. If you were passionate to your wife, that was considered to be…show more content…
When Abelard addresses his letter to Heloise, he puts her name before his. According to Heloise, the man should have come before the woman. She viewed women as inferior to men. In the letter she says, “I am surprised, my only love, that contrary to custom in letter writing and, indeed, to the natural order, you have thought fit to put my name before yours in the greeting which heads your letter, so that we have the woman before the man, wife before husband, handmaid before lord, nun before monk, deaconess before priest abbess before abbot” (p.63). It shows that all positions of women throughout society could not have reached equal status with
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