Who Will Light Handsome When Mother's Gone Analysis

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Cultural Stereotypes and Fears It has been said that there is a “price to living in America” (Lam 2003), one that I believe effects all types of people whether they were born here or not. In reading two separate essays, “Who Will Light Incense When Mother’s Gone” by Vietnamese writer Andrew Lam and “About Men” by Gretel Ehrlich, it became apparent to me that there are many cultural fears and stereotypes floating around our nation. Through these themes, the reader is able to see just what the price of living in America is. In “Who Will Light Incense When Mother’s Gone”, Andrew Lam begins to describe the contrast between his new life as a first generation American citizen compared to his mother’s traditional Vietnamese culture. It is extremely apparent that there is a divide between mother and son, with Andrew…show more content…
Yes, fiction works can come from direct experiences as well, but typically they are based on a personal experience or idea not directly derived from their experience. In Adam Lam’s story, this was something that he truly went through his entire life. He details his thoughts on his mother’s 70th birthday when he overheard her whisper about the incense. He is telling us his personal life story in regards to his mother and him and how they have grown up in two different worlds. He shares his fears and concerns with us of a real situation that first generation Americans are dealing with in our country as we speak. His thoughts of being left alone with no tie to his culture are valid and he wants us to see what will happen if we don’t hold onto these cultural ideals. In “About Men”, Ehrlich tells us what a cowboy is and how she believes he has been stereotyped by our culture. It is not a work of fiction because she is not fabricating or creating things to put in the story. Her thoughts and feelings on what cowboys are, are her

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