Luna Williams English 100 02/10/2014 Just Whom is This Divorce “Good” For? Divorce is a huge topic a lot of parents think about when they feel that there spouse is no longer compatible with them and also the fact that it’s not working out for reason only they will know. It may just be the fact that two people that were deeply in love just feel out of it because of no connection anymore. In the article “Just Whom Is This Divorce” Good” For? Written by Elizabeth Marquart talks about how divorce can cause children even from a good divorce go through it there selves when they get older, children also feel that they are to blame for their parents getting divorced and they lose all interest for other things, there is also a lot of controversy about which parent gets which day can just lead up to a huge custody battle for most.
Many couples argue to win but over the long term this often results in a breakup. Couples could avoid destroying their relationship by making time for each other not arguing ineffectively and learning the art of listening. Couples argue about many things finances, health, child rearing, commitment, etc. in order for an argument to be effective both parties must maintain focus on the topic at hand. When we digress and lose focus nothing is being accomplished.
The effects could be: - * Physical – Signs of poor health, self harming, attempting suicide * Emotional – Loss of self worth, leading to physical trauma * Social – Social exclusion, no one to talk to, lack of friends * Intellectual – Not wanting to learn & Withdrawing from places of learning Discrimination come in different forms: - Gender Religion Age Race Sexuality 1.3 Inclusive practice is about the attitudes & approaches taken to ensure that people are not excluded or isolated. It means supporting diversity by accepting and welcoming people’s differences, and promoting equality by ensuring equal opportunities for all. Having a sound awareness of and responding sensitively to an individual’s needs supports them in developing a sense of belonging, well-being and confidence in their identity and abilities. And it helps them to achieve their potential and be an equal within the
Assisted suicide should to be about free choice. But there are significant dangers that many people would take this "out" due to pressure, such as elderly individuals who don't want to be a financial or caretaking burden on their families. There's a significant amount of elder abuse in this country, and it's very often by family members, which could easily lead to such
Acting as a mediator requires the ability to move with the flow of the conflict and the ability to understand each person’s inner feelings and motivations without seeing them as right, wrong, good, or bad. Couples choosing mediation are seeking the assistance of a neutral person to help them make sense out of the chaos of the marriage breakdown. They are distraught, fearful, angry, and hopeful, all at the same time. The mediator, aware of the depth of the conflict and pain of divorce, never takes sides, but strives to help them arrive at a place where they can begin to build their new lives without erasing the past. The mediator’s task is to transport them from their chaos to a higher level of function where they can begin to work together to create the best outcome possible to close their marriage with dignity and care.
Never agree to keep secrets, never buy the individual presents and do not see the individual in your own personal time. This could lead the relationship into a personal relationship; attachment issues and conflicts. Consistency is the key to maintaining the relationship and positive reinforcement. Also the use of incentive programmes to support the individual in areas that they may be having difficulty in. When an individual is moving on it is important that you take an active role if you are the person’s keyworker.
I think he didn’t let go because he still could see the hope in her eyes and hear the hope in her voice that she thought he would get better.. Even thou they want to go they still don’t want their love ones to suffer. We never want to let go of our love ones because it hurts. We have to do what is best for them and not us. We have to realize that they are the ones in pain and that they are just prolonging what they know is going to happen.
That is what’s called effective conflict resolution. “If you can find something that everyone agrees on, something’s wrong.”-Mo Udall. This statement means that if there were something that everyone has no disagreements towards, then there is a problem because there’s always going to be a small conflict to keep natural daily balance in life. Now, the effective conflict resolution is simply to avoid conflicting with others when others want to conflict. Example, walking away is braver than mouthing off.
Though, I don’t think marriage should be looked at the “last” stage of “obtaining” their lover because we can’t ever obtain a person. Although, I agree mostly on the abolition of the adultery law, as a human, I believe that the reason why I can’t fully agree with it is because if I got married and my husband is cheating with somebody, I would obviously want to punish him and who knows what I want to do with him. I mean, I understand how difficult situations can go, but what keeps me from agreeing with the abolition is because the law, the public shouldn’t help or punish our relationship, it should be us, us only. I’m not saying cheating is good, but I don’t think the public can genuinely understand relationships to judge them and sentence them to jail and at the same time there are same cases even done for unmarried couples but cannot be punished. Either way, if we taking about laws for relationships, it’s never going to have a satisfying result as we are dealing with emotions.
It is important to have a supportive and trusting relationship.In the text, it is portrayed by Goldsmith that the success or downfall of a parent-child relationship relies on both individuals. If they do not both have respect for each other, then their relationship will be weak, and that is when relationships fall apart. Healthy relationships also consist of being able to be strong, however you need the proper characteristics. Goldsmith portrays Mr. Hardcastle and Kate’s relationship as a great one because they respect each other and Kate is very well disciplined. On the contrary Mrs. Hardcastle and Tony’s relationship lacks Boundaries and Communications so their relationship is negatively impacted and is one that is not healthy.