The Kite Runner Father Son Relationship

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A bond between a father and son that is desired may not always be one of love, but one of much pain. The relationship between a father and a son is one that should help prepare a boy for his future. Khaled Hosseini, the author of the The Kite Runner, uses an emotional bond between a father and a son to express the need of a fatherly figure in a boy’s life. The relationship that clearly demonstrates this need for a fatherly figure is between Baba and Amir. Despite the fact that Rahim Kahn gave Amir a sense of morality throughout his life, Baba has a very significant and dominant impact on Amir. In a father-son relationship, every boy desires a fatherly figure. To a boy, a father is a very important role model. Baba doesn’t understand why Amir…show more content…
One night while Baba and Amir were sitting in his study, Baba casually tells Amir how he thinks Amir might win the kite flying tournament this year causing Amir to question if that was all it would take to win his father’s approval. While Amir pretended to listen to Baba talk, he couldn’t stop thinking about Baba’s casual comment, making him become determined to win the winter tournament; “I was going to win…Show Baba once and for all that his son was worthy” (56). Since Baba has little compassion towards Amir, he doesn’t understand how much Amir dreams for his father’s approval. When the day of the tournament finally arrived, Amir kept catching himself looking over at Baba sitting on their roof with Rahim. Amir wondered what Baba was thinking; “Was he cheering for me? Or did a part of him enjoy watching me fail?” (63). Everything Amir would ever think about always turned negative when it came to their relationship. Then, when Amir finally cut the last kite standing and he saw Baba standing on the edge of the roof, pumping both his fists, cheering; it gave Amir a new sense of hope with their relationship. “And that right there was the single greatest moment of my twelve years of life, seeing Baba on that roof, proud of me at last” (66). Now thinking that he was going to become closer with Baba, it is that blue kite that symbolizes Amir’s longing for his father’s approval. He was neglected…show more content…
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