Poetry of Love and War

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Whilst time changes many things, one thing it does not change is the experience of deep emotions. Whether they are love, hatred, grief or friendship, human have always attempted to explore what it is to love and to hate. One way they have done this is through poetry. Four poems which do just this are the nineteenth century love poem, ‘Friendship After Love’, written by Ella Wheeler Wilcox, ee cummings, ‘it may not always be so’ written in the twentieth century, World War One poem ‘Dulce et Decorum Est’ written by Wilfred Owen and finally, ‘Homecoming’ written by Bruce Dawe about the Vietnam War. These four poems explore many things about love, war and the similarities and differences between them. Though written in different times, all four poems explore essentially the same things; whether it is communicated through love or war. ‘Friendship After Love’, written in the nineteenth century by Ella Wheeler Wilcox, depicts the progression of a relationship from the stages of love and passion to the heartbreak at the loss of love and finally to the steady state of friendship. She speaks of her love, which began so passionately, but became nothing more than friendship, relating her experience of that lost love through this poem. The progression of love is inevitable and must be accepted. ‘Friendship After Love’ explores the changes and movement of the love she has experienced. Whilst there is always a sense of loss when a relationship ends, there can also be resolution and relief from the expectation that can overwhelm a relationship, “Why are we haunted with a sense of loss?”, “He beckons us to follow, and across/Cool verdant vales we wander free from care”. Whether or not a friendship evolves from a passionate relationship, does not stop the connection which will always remain between two people who have shared an experience of love together. Although the end of a
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