Maysan Hadar Men Vs Women Analysis

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Growing up in America is not easy, emotionally. From a young age, a child is taught that they must look nice and have a certain body image. As they grow older, this idea is only engraved deeper into their consciousness until they feel it is normal to look in the mirror and think, “Gee...I look fat” or “If I could just lose a few pounds here…” Society’s constant reaffirmations that we are not good enough, not “pretty” enough or “manly” enough to be accepted are continuously there, nagging at everyone. In “Veiled Intention: Don’t Judge a Muslim Girl by Her Covering” by Maysan Hadar and “Becoming Members of Society: Learning the Social Meanings of Gender” by Aaron H Devor, both illustrate how men and woman face stereotypical roles in society,…show more content…
Both sexes worry a lot about how the other views them in terms of attractiveness. Haydar saw these behaviors in her own workplace, “New York exemplifies what’s wrong with our image obsessed society, women showed up to work in backless halter tops and were fawned over by male coworkers” (465). Much of the effort women put into their daily regime is all to be noticed and accepted. In comparison, Devor explains, “Members of both genders are believed to share many of the same human characteristics, although in different relative proportions” (388). American society for a long time now tried to keep the gender status at an equal level, but if either side can learn to no confine themselves to such extreme guidelines then there will come a greater sense of accomplishment. In our culture, gender roles have become blended with many disregarding the gender they are give or refusing the role associated with their gender, but we still have a concept of what feminine and masculine imply to due to our society’s expectations for women to be women and men to be men. In “Veiled Intention: Don’t Judge a Muslim Girl by Her Covering” and “Becoming Members of Society: Learning the Social Meanings of Gender” by Aaron H. Devor both illustrated how Americans are so judgmental on image and gender roles. It is ok to thin that you should not be judged based on appearance alone, but America

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