In some ways, things will remain the same. These changes and experiences will help shape our lives and expanded our cultural knowledge. As college rolls around one of the biggest things that people think about is their roommate. For most people living at home involves having their own room. This is a major difference that is a tough transition for some.
The act of improving someone else's situation in some way, even it it just involves listening, takes the persons own anxieties down a notch or two in importance and therefore they concentrate on the difficulties of others. Many professions where helping other is the main focus will have more than their fair share of people who use this tactic. Abstract Mrs X 35 feels concerned that she dominates conversations, that people do not find her interesting, worries that she will run out of things to say which would create an awkward silence. Self creates anxiety around certain people and certain social situations so will find a reason to cancel and not attend. Introduction In our initial meeting Mrs X came across as a very bright, intelligent and confident lady with no outward signs of any issues or worries as was very bubbly and outgoing in personality.
The college experience is a transition from youth to adulthood. It presents challenges but then yet many opportunities. You will hear many stories from different people who are currently in college or who have already completed the college experience. There will be people with nothing but positive things to say and others that will just simply be pessimistic regarding the college experience. The social atmosphere that goes through college is slightly different from anything else going around in your world.
Expert interview: She believes is shyness is her major problem in life then she is lucky. Shyness is a personal defect that can easily to get over. When a person is shy they tend to avoid talking or interacting with people as much as possible. This is to avoid embarrassment or saying something that others may not like. She could practice talking to people.
Although college is supposed to be used to help us prepare for our future careers and lives, many people get a lot of different life lessons out of it and in a way that is just as good as receiving their education. We as people do not all function the same way, so college works in different ways for all of us. I have had a chance to witness this on a personal level with two of my cousins. For one of my cousins’ college turned out to be a good
Although difficulties are a part of life, there is always a positive side and a way to overcome them. Going away to college can be entertaining but at the same time it can be costly. Teens that come from high income families are at luck because they are given the luxury of not having to work or be in debt. On the other hand those that don’t come from high income families or even those that just have not saved find difficulties in financing their payments. Eventually they are forced to turn to government for aid.
Though it was overwhelming, when classes started I had a chance to make actual connections with people and make new friends. Shockingly, some of the best friends I have made in college aren’t even in my classes, but are people who live on my floor and have similar interests, hobbies, and morals as me. Comparing now the friends I have made in high school to the friends I have made in college, I could and would leave many of my high school friends behind. The friends I have made in college support me and have changed me for the better. High school is, and always will
Maybe the loud laughing, annoying running through halls, mind-boggling bed noises are not what may be best for the average learning student. Everybody has different living styles and needs. One may believe that living in the dorms is what every students needs and what is best for the student-body. However others may believe that living off-campus may be best, because of the independency and one’s ability to grow without the dorms flaws. College authorities do not know one’s needs but simply leave the decision based on statistics.
You could find an apartment of your own. You could even rent a house with a few of your friends instead of having to live with your parents until you graduate from college. The year off would allow the student to develop some aspects of independence, reflect on the skills he/she requires and practice on staying alone even in the comfort of family members and friends. This time could be utilized to find an average paying job to start saving for college books, fees, and your tuition. Many college graduates graduate with a large amount of debt, but those who do not use a gap year to earn money so they are not in such debt.
How to change an undesirable habit or personality trait Habits are those routine things that we do everyday, often without thinking twice about them. What changes a habit into a bad habit is when the actions have a negative impact on your life, your feelings about yourself, your health or your relationships. Bad habits may cause you to miss opportunities, avoid certain situations and even give others misleading information about your personality. They can come in many forms such as social vices like smoking and drinking, or personal practices like procrastinating or lying. However, interestingly, most undesirable habits or personality traits stem from the same problem unsettles sentiments that motivates us to perform action that we later on regret and the best way to change or remove such a habit or trait is to overcome or release this emotion.