Friend or Faux - Idealism in Online Relationships

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Friend or Faux: Idealism in Online Friendship Abstract Online relationships, both platonic and romantic, are becoming more a part of daily life in the United States. Many interactions that used to take place in person, have shifted to technology mediated communication, such as e-mail, text messaging, social networking etc. An effect was noted in previous research by Gilbert et all (2011) that in online extramarital relationships, participants had an idealized view of their online partners as compared with their real life spouses. This paper set out to determine if that effect was present in online platonic relationships. While survey results seemed to indicate a trend towards more positive and less negative ratings towards online friends, this was not conclusive as the research method was found to be flawed on analysis. While idealism may be an explanation for the results seen, another possible explanation presented itself in the form of what was dubbed by an assistant as the “Angel or Asshole Effect” in which online friends were more likely to be rated either at a 5, or a 1 when compared to offline friends where there were more nuanced responses. Introduction and Background In the past 20 years, computers have gone from a rare commodity, to commonplace as have cell phones and other various technologies. The ways in which people are communicating digitally have increased in that same period of time, and much of the communication that used to take place either verbally over the telephone or face to face, is now mediated by these technologies. Technology has also opened up new avenues for relating to other people throughout the world that may never have had the chance to interact in former time periods. With the new opportunities, have come new challenges for understanding these interactions with people who have never laid eyes on one another.
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