Fitting Domestic Violence

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Fitting Domestic Violence Domestic violence has been plaguing our society for years. It’s the leading cause of injury to women between the ages of 15 and 44 in the United States. Three to four million women in the United States are beaten in their homes each year by their husbands, ex-husbands, or male lovers and more than three women are murdered by their husband or boyfriends every day. Domestic violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion or gender. It can happen to couples who are married, living together or are just dating. It affects people of all economic backgrounds and education levels. There are different forms of abuse, physical (hitting, pinching, shoving, or kicking), emotional (threatening, name…show more content…
The controlling characteristic that males attribute to their masculinity is the cause to these abusive relationships. When males don’t have control they feel their masculinity is threatened and they need to do something about it. This doesn’t occur in just their relationships, but rather every facet of life. Men are constantly in a struggle for power and control. So the only way for them to get this power is for them to be “men”; tough, strong, masculine, ones that demand and take power. Where is this need for control coming from? Is it the natural structure of a man or is it a social construct? The answer is that it’s the social environment, which results in this need for control due to fear. Men use the fear created from domestic violence to gain control, but yet women do have some control in a relationship it is this vague boundary of how much control that leads to domestic…show more content…
Battering is the single major cause of injury to women, more significant that auto accidents, rapes, or muggings. In fact, the emotional and psychological abuse inflicted by batterers may be more costly to treat in the short-run than physical injury. Many of the physical injuries sustained by women seem to cause medical difficulties as women grow older. Arthritis, hypertension and heart disease have been identified by battered women as directly caused or aggravated by domestic violence suffered early in their adult lives. The only way for you to break the cycle of domestic violence is to take action, and the sooner you it the better. Start by telling someone about the abuse, whether it’s a friend, loved one, health care provider, or other close contact. At first, you might find it hard to talk about the abuse. But you’ll also feel relief and receive all the support needed if you open up and look for

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