Essay On Friar Lawrence In Shakespeare's Romeo And Juliet

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“Of all the words of mice and men, the saddest are, it might have been.” -Kurt Vonnegut. After reading Romeo and Juliet, by William Shakespeare, all one can think about is what might have been. Set in Verona hundreds of years ago, two rival families continue to fight because of an “ancient grudge” (Prologue.3) Two teens, Romeo and Juliet, fall in love, defying their families rules. After only a couple of days, their love cause both of their deaths. Friar Lawrence was the cause of their deaths for his irresponsibility and lack of urgency to solve the conflict he started. Although Romeo and Juliet met with no involvement by the Friar, he was the one who encouraged their love and married them. “In one respect i’ll thy assistant be, / For this…show more content…
After hearing of Romeo’s banishment and being forced to marry Paris in the upcoming days, Juliet rushes to the Friar for advice. Although betraying Juliet, the Nurse’s decision to side with Lady Capulet was probably one of the smartest choices in the play. Unlike the Friar, the Nurse realized how outcome of Romeo and Juliet’s marriage could end badly. The Friar continues his irresponsible and childish actions by conjuring up a plan and potion in a matter of minutes. “Friar Lawrence, less ambitious and more desperate than his fellow manipulators, does not hope that Juliet’s death will dissolve the families’ hatreds but only that it will give Romeo and chance to come and carry her off” (Snyder). At this point Romeo and Juliet’s relationship could not solve the problems between the families and the Friar was only uniting them. This is what made the Friar so repulsive. Even now after deaths and family issues, He treated the situation like a game. “Hold, daughter, I do spy a kind of hope, / Which craves as desperate an execution / As that is desperate which we would prevent (4.1.69-71). And again the Friar tosses around very serious topics with little understanding of what he is causing. He is proposing to the terrified and distressed Juliet to fake her death and then forget about her family, friends, and city, to run off with Romeo whom she met only a few days…show more content…
The Friar finally realizes that Romeo has no knowledge of their plan and that he needs to get to Juliet so nothing goes wrong. “Now must I to the monument alone / Within this three hours will fair Juliet wake” (5.3.24-25). Even now the Friar acts as if he has all the time in the world and apparently takes three hours to get to the monument. Juliet’s life is on the line because of Friar Lawrence and yet he acts lazy and takes his time to get to the monument. Romeo, who was further than Friar Lawrence, arrives at the tomb with enough spare time to kill Paris and make a long speech before poisoning himself. Finally the Friar arrives, now realizing that Romeo has already been down in the tomb. He makes it just in time for Juliet to wake up hinting toward a happy ending for at least Juliet. Now after 5 acts and 3 scenes the thought occurs to Friar Lawrence that he was in over his head. He abandons the clearly unstable and disoriented Juliet just as she is waking up. “Stay, then. I’ll go alone. Fear comes upon me. / O, much I fear some ill unthrilly thing” (5.3.129-140). As the watch approaches, the Friar grows selfish and flees from the scene leaving Juliet who now realizes that Romeo killed himself. She then kills herself which could have so easily been prevented by the Friar. Time and time again his irresponsible behavior gets the best of
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