Essay On Breaking Social Norms

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Observing Reactions to the Breaking of Social Norms 1. I decided to break the social norm (unwritten) of not laughing unpredictably in unsuitable situations. I did this by laughing randomly during a quiet family meal and then during a family meal at my cousin’s house. The reason I chose this is because of the fact that it does not cause distress but instead disrupts the situation. 2. Before hand I thought that it would be quite easy but close to when I was going to act abnormally, I didn't want to do it as it would make me look a little silly, which would make my family see me in different way. 3. No serious preparation was required but I did need to practice for a minute or so before to make sure I was going act in the way…show more content…
However, when I laughed during the second family meal, the family members that were at the first meal again asked if I was ‘OK’ and saying that it was the second time I had done that (laughing amongst each other) and began a conversation whether there was something wrong with me. During the events I was thinking whether they would become determined whether there was a problem with me, which made me feel like what I was doing was not wroth carrying out. 5. After it was over, I was thinking whether my family would actually think I had a mental illness or any other issue, which consequently made me feel slightly worried. However, an hour or so after the meal I told my parents that it was all an observation of their reactions to abnormal behavior, to which they laughed and told me how much of a fool I made myself look like. 6. From doing this, I learnt the extent to which little abnormalities distress and cause worry to other people. Therefore, it made me think how even the slightest things break our self-constructed social norms. Family Member | Physical Reaction | Verbal Reaction

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