Encountering Conflict Essay

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Encountering Conflict Essay: ‘One can survive and not survive conflict’ “It is through conflict that our true nature is revealed.” Conflict is usually seen as just the physical damage or destruction of someone or something, but it goes much deeper. Conflict can result in physical damage and what is sometimes overlooked psychological and emotional damage. Sometimes no matter what is done the events of the past can never be erased and that can kill even the strongest of men. An understanding of the nature of conflict and the irony of being a joyful survivor of war is acquired through close study of the extraordinary memoir ‘Every man in this village is a liar’ written by Megan stack. This text reveals that inner conflict can be catalyzed by conflict within war and the poor living environments of which many children and families struggle to survive in everyday. Only the strongest soldiers return survivors of war however “We may wish it were not so, but action amounts to identity. We become what we do.” Living after surviving war is not something every soldier can cope with. Millions of people die fighting a few survive physically however most are affected psychologically or emotionally. Soldiers are stuck with an experience unlike any other known to man, stuck with memories and images of what it's like to be hunted by another man. Different people take different things away from war and are affected in different ways, but a change after a war is inevitable. In the novel ‘Every man in this village is a liar’ the author Describes the poignant tragedy of “John”, her father’s cousin, a troubled young man who after the death of his mother, joins the Marines at the age of 16. He is sent to Beirut in Lebanon. The barracks he is in is blown up and 305 people are killed. John survives but he is unable to cope and commits suicide, leaving a wife and young son behind. Not
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