Cohabitation Can Never Be Right

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Cohabitation can never be right Reason 1 (The view I disagree with) To be living together suggests that you are in love with that person, and want to be closer to him/her by living under the same roof. It is not the same as being married, where you have an on-going relationship. Instead, it is known as romance without relationship, which according to today’s society and statistics, lead to arguments and conflicts, and eventually leads to being separated. But why does this happen? This is because couples who are cohabiting have not built a strong enough relationship yet, and therefore become more and more distant as they argue about the smallest of things. Reason 2 (The view I disagree with) A good relationship is built upon knowing each other on social, spiritual, and communicative levels, not only on the sexual level. As a cohabitated couple, they only stay together for convenience or compatibility, and not for commitment. This makes it harder for them to keep together, and easily break ties with each other. Criticising the previous statements above In marriage, you must make a proclamation, and swear that you will stay together until “death does you apart”. In cohabitation, you don’t need to go through the process of making a more steady relationship between the two of you. As for conflicts, you can always try to avoid them or talk it out with your partner. Personal view Cohabitation isn’t a bad thing; there are many other things that can become hurdles in a relationship. Saying that marriage is the only way to have a steady relationship is wrong. What if the couples suddenly become bankrupt? What if the couples cheat on one another and they find out? There will surely be a major breakdown and the whole family will be in a real big mess. Whereas, for cohabitation, if this happens, the solution is simple; break up. This won’t do much harm to either of the
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