Belonging In Romulus, My Father

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It is a fundamental human need to belong and an individual’s interaction with others and the world can enrich or limit their experience of belonging. Individuals who feel secure, accepted and understood have a strong sense of self, and wellbeing and as a result are enriched by their experience of belonging. Individuals sense of belonging may be limited however if they feel rejected or misunderstood, or fail to understand the expectations of others and may become increasingly isolated. Raimond Gaita’s novel Romulus, My Father (1998) contrasts the way in which Romulus’ sense of belonging is limited by his interaction in an unfamiliar world whilst Raimond’s interaction with others in the world, in particular with his father, enriches his experience…show more content…
This is further emphasized by the symbolic significance of his father’s arms, “I remember his strong, bare, sun-darkened arms on either side of me… the sight of his muscular arms protected me…” Raimond’s relationship with Romulus shapes his sense of self and the world and is revealed in the anaphora of his assertion “I know what a good workman is; I know what an honest man is; I know what friendship is; I know because I remember these things in the person of my father…” By contrast Raimond’s relationship with his mother is characterized as one of “neglect”. Ironically however, whilst his interaction with his mother has the potential to limit his sense of…show more content…
Pryor is forced into “one of those smart professions” by his parents who undervalue the rural life to which Pryor is in fact suited. Ironically, whilst his parents slave “to free him from the stony fields” they are in fact contributing to his future isolation and sense of alienation. The visual imagery of the “stony fields” and the “meagre acreage” emphasize the hardship endured by Pryor’s parents and echoes the barren infertility of the Australian landscape that Romulus feels so alienated from. By contrast however Warren does not flourish without it. The “slender scroll” is supposed to be his metaphorical “passport from the years of brutal toil”. However, in spite of the fact that Pryor bears his parents misconceptions with “lonely patience in a barren hole” the lexical choice of “lonely” and “barren” underscores his sense of isolation and alienation in the white-collar world. The fulfilment of the parents dream of their son’s escape from rural life is expressed in the phrase “their cups ran over”, this biblical allusion to the 23rd Psalm connotes that in his parents eyes his position at “the bank” has elevated him, giving him a kind of divine grace reshaping their own sense of belonging in the world as well as his. However, whilst the “milk white shirt” he wears symbolises this new state of belonging and enriches the parent’s sense of
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