Sitting passively and waiting for a new opportunity to unlock achievements will not help a person move on. Stop talking about the social problems and start acting what benefits an individual. Do not be afraid to try something new in life. There are many chances out there that could be completed. These changes will not drop down anytime soon, one must reach out and exert integrity.
We cannot force happiness in our consciousness. Recognize that we cannot be always happy is a big challenge because it means that we have to give space in our life to sadness as well. We would not expect us to feel happiness after we lost a relative. Although the psychological immune system engages immediately (we will never see our relative again!) by trying to explain the phenomenon, it takes time in the consciousness to adapt to the positive idea (He is going off to a better place), relieving us from that unhappy condition in which we encounter.
Map 1 – Help you stay in charge of your life, whether you are up or down. You will discover how to tap the cycle of change for designing the rest of your life, to use change as a major resource for your future life designs. (Life Launch pg. 48) After reading Map 1, I found this map is like an ongoing cycle. Like most, my life is always changing and things do not always work out as planned.
It is important to keep a balance of the important things in one’s life otherwise, weaknesses can be developed that shadows over a person’s natural strength to prioritize. A balance of the important things in one’s life is what allows personal success to be achieved. Successfulness is the ability to seize new opportunities and explore new paths in life. Balance is the key to success because when there is balance in one’s life there is a cut back of stress, which makes room for the ability to thrive; and a person’s ability to thrive is what carries them to their personal success. To be successful is to understand what is important to you, to recognize your weaknesses without hiding behind them, to strive for balance as well as open new doors in life.
Deborah Tanner said “nearly everything is framed as a battle or game in which winning or losing is the main concern.” (Argument 4) each partner needs to be cognizant of this mindset and thru the utilization of mindful speech and listening be prepared to concede certain points. Often couples will completely lose focus on the current disagreement because one or both refers back to previous issues. This is unhealthy and should be avoided. Argument should never employ verbal abuse as a tactic to win. If this should occur an immediate apology can go a long way in repairing the damage.
They feel that they do not have time to take care of themselves, so they continue to hesitate between these two spaces. Thanks to research in Positive Psychology, we know that this way of approaching work, does not work as it is backwards. I believe if we can find a way of becoming positive in the present, then our brains work even more successfully, as we’re able to work harder, faster and more intelligent. 6) What are the implications or consequences of the speaker’s conclusions? The only issue I could think of would be people are not sure that this constant focus on happiness is healthy or desirable.
Then again, I do not work as indicated by agendas and in order to start achieving my goals, I need to be highly motivated. After taking the survey, I learned that I need to manage my time accordingly. There should be time for fun and time for serious work. Individuals who have lower future orientation experience arousal procrastination, putting things off to get a last minute rush. I sometimes distance from or reject future goals so that I can reduce present tension and look for more immediate and pleasurable rewards than longer arranges or future objectives.
I want to dictate what I want my future to look like and want I want to experience through that journey. During the past several years I have a way started on a path of possible enlighten. I have come to the realization that I need to sometimes be selfish and worry about my well being first and foremost. How can I make the strongest impact on others if I’m not in a good physical or mental state? If I try to please everyone, I will burn out and feel terrible when expectations are not met.
Healthy development of both my attitude and my approach will help me to achieve any measured amount of feelings of happiness or success. As I make choices today to insure personal or professional advancements or progress day to day, I am aware of the impact these decisions will have later in my adult life. I am mindful to give consideration to the choices I have. By my knowing the importance of making the correct choices now, I see how this will possibly lead to feelings of regret or despair during my late stage development, if I make poor choices today. In order to avoid this from happening in my future, I am careful to give proper thought to the choices I make today.
When we say or do things without thinking that shows lack of self-discipline but also immaturity. I’m sure that respect comes with development over time and maturity. The level of maturity that some people haven’t reached yet may due to there upbringing or life style choices, also shows why they lack respect. Maturity is reached at different times for different people. Some people may never mature and choose to live there lives that way.