Where Is Beauty

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Jones Professor V ENG 101 February 28, 2012 609 Where is Beauty? Where is beauty? Does it come from a glimpse of the interior, or the look of the exterior? This is a struggle that is ongoing in the lives of many women. There has been a pattern of low self-esteem that hasn’t been addressed properly. The most important question should be why is this happening, and what can we do to prevent it from spreading? Children need to have a strong image of themselves; even when they are being told that they are nothing like what the media presents as, “cool,” and parents need to find a way to help children see themselves a strong, and important the way they are. In The Virtues of Growing Older by Carol Siskin she states that with age comes the release of the obsession with beauty. She states, “Being young is often pleasant, but being older has distinct advantages.” Siskin acknowledges that while being young and beautiful is important, loving yourself for who you are at the moment in time you are currently at is what’s important. She also states, “My own parents, now in their sixties, recently told me that they are happier now than they have ever been,” she continues, “Their contentment holds our great promise for me as I move into the next-perhaps even better-phase of my life.” I believe this is the key to breaking the cycle of obsession with beauty. Children need to see their parents happy with themselves as their lives progress. On the other hand; according to Dave Barry in Beauty and the Beast, a woman will never escaper her obsession with youth. He explains, “Why do women have such low self-esteem? There are many complex psychological and societal reasons, by which I mean Barbie.” It is apparent that Barry thinks that the damage caused to young girls during their child hood is too extensive to repair. He also
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