The Beliefs and Values of A Child Life is full of mysteries. From childhood we become curious of things that surround us. We experience pleasure and pain through our senses. Robert Coles, “I Listen to My Parents and I Wonder What They Believe” explains how kids in fact wonder about morals and life, and how they have questions about everything. From the moment we are born the family influence begins to impact our thought process.
They might also become angry about losing a loved one which could make them unsettled and have bad behaviour. This may occur as depending on age, the child may find it hard or lack the maturity and experience to express how their feeling. This could make them frustrated which could then manifest itself into angry behaviour. 2) New sibling – When a new child is born into a family, this can make the existing child or children feel left out and abandoned as the attention shifts to the new baby. This can cause feelings of jealousy as they fight for the attention of their parents.
2.1 Describe with examples the kinds of influences that affect children and young people’s development including: • Background • Health • Environment Background A young child especially is mostly influences by their parent or parents. This is because they learn from them and are a huge part of their lives. Each child will have a different childhood to others, as each individual is different. Parents have a strong bond with their own child and want only the best in life for them, this could be to want them to have the best childhood possible, watch them grow and exceed with career expectations. Also to meet new people, friends and develop new relationships.
If a child isn’t supported through emotional transitions such as a new baby this could lead them to become jealous of the child and may be the cause of unwanted negative behavior, this could be because it hadn’t been explained that they were going to get a new brother/sister. This would lead the child to be confused why hasn’t mom got as much time for me any more? Why am I being told to be quiet more? The child could display more negative behaviour as an attention seeking ploy or even revert back to some of their more babyish behaviour in the bid to get more attention it could also lead to them hitting out at or hurting the baby from jealousy but if handled correctly the child may be very proud of their younger sibling and take great pride in helping mommy look after them buy doing small but important jobs to help with the care of the baby. If for instance one parent leaves to go on business for a longer than normal period of time this needs to be explained to the child so that they understand that the
This behaviour can become a core value and can require work to alter. Miss E parents may have established this behaviour in her unwittingly. Although it is also possible (judging from Miss E statement that her parents “badgered her” about food that her parents also exerted some form of control over her and her eating habits as a child , for their own reasons. Perhaps the motivations for this can be explored later with Miss E's consent? Any feelings of insecurity attached to the benefits of weight loss must be addressed also for example - Miss E's fear of changes in her own life.
"Ignorance, the root and the stem of every evil." -Plato (427 BC - 347 BC) In developing critical thinking skills and the attainment of broad knowledge, children are given the chance to succeed in life. As they wade through the pages of life with the ability to be critical thinkers in their bag full of life essentials, they also come to find that happiness is not something they have to work for. It is through the indoctrination children receive in childhood that they find the bridges to their goals broken and unable to be met. Children are indoctrinated in different ways by their parents, caregivers, teachers, and the occasional friend much like the prisoners of Plato's Allegory of the Cave found in The Republic.
Disorganized relationships. Disorganized children don’t know what to expect from their parents. Children with relationships in the other categories have organized attachments. This means that they have all learned ways to get what they need, even if it is not the best way. This happens because a child learns to predict how his parent will react, whether it is positive or negative.
This is so that these barriers do not put a strain on the partnership and relationship parents and practitioners have. Barriers can lead to the parents becoming more emotional such as anger or show distress about it. Leading onto more prejudice attitudes and having different expectations on rules. It can all spiral out of control if not stopped, which not the help the child would reach their full potential as the child is the main focus, as their wellbeing is one of the most crucial part (paramount) while in the setting. Barriers come in many forms, such as when key persons are doing observations and planning.
Competitive activities could be discovered from many different resources besides their own mother and/or father. Another moral issue in applying this plan would be the finish unraveling of close relative’s member’s model that this country was established on. The children placed in these circumstances would grow up with a reduced feeling of close relative’s principles and that belong, since more children would be removed under this plan than would have otherwise been placed as wards of the condition including children whose families would have taken proper them and are
If they had low self-esteem this could mean that the child/ young person may be facing further abuse in their parenthood as they are very defenseless. If someone has been abused from a child it may mean that they could possibly never reach their full potential. This would be due to depreciation that they had faced and possibly end up making them feel powerless to take on a role which would consist of obligation. Not being able to have relationships with people in the future, making friends as a child and finding a husband/partner once in parenthood. Self-harm would make the service providers very mistrustful as the pain imposed on them by themselves is showing as the pain they are facing at some other point with someone else.