We Find Our Identity Through Our Connection with Others

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Identity is defined as “the distinct personality of an individual regarded as a persisting entity; individuality”. It is a vital factor that plays an essential part in our lives as it provides for us a sense of uniqueness and the ability to identify ourselves with others. Humans, being sociable creatures by nature, identify themselves through their relationship with friends, family, colleagues and other social groups; these interactions deliver a sense of privilege and belonging especially within one’s own family. As this is an ever changing phenomenon, many challenges are faced on the path of finding our true identity and the place we truly belong. These issues are explored profoundly in texts; Looking for Alibrandi, and Night, in which the characters face many complex and emotional events that question whether they truly belong to and can they identify themselves as being a part of their immediate families. It is in high school that an individual starts to discover and view the world differently as they come to understand and relate most of the things to themselves. Looking for Alibrandi is a film that follows the experience of a 17-year-old Josie Alibrandi as she comes to understand her connections to her friends and family during her last year of school. It opens with a scene on “Tomato Day” an important Italian traditional day that marks a day of joy and happiness but due to Josie’s inability to identify herself with her Italian heritage this experience becomes “really embarrassing. This might be where I come from but do I really belong here?” An individual’s background and connection to family and friends can limit the achievements into developing an independent sense of belonging. When we belong to our immediate families it fosters the feeling that we are accepted and loved but expectations are also set that needs to be achieved. So when Josie feels
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