Haila Jones To Spank or not to Spank As parents we use discipline to teach our children the difference between the right thing and the wrong thing to do. It is the parent’s choice what type they would like to use. There are several, different types of parental styles starting with: authoritarian , overly permissive , authoritative, and spanking (corporal punishment). There are different parenting styles depending on your culture as well. I believe that there is no right or wrong way to discipline a child, but there is a right and wrong way to behave.
First, parents shouldn’t substitute their time with their children with gifts. They should try as much as they can to spend as much time as possible with them. They should show their kids, not just tell them. “No means no. That’s final.” These parents should help their kids distinguish between wants and needs.
It is not that they demand too much from their kids but they expect too little. Parents try so hard to provide their children’s needs to make them happy and become their kid’s best friend that they forget about being a real parent. A parent who knows what is best for their child should not be afraid to say “no”, “The mistake that many parents make today is not that they’re too strict but rather too lenient”. They should discipline and set limits to consumption and teach their children the value of a
They would not have learned the value of working in order to gain. They will put greater emphasis on appearance rather than substance simply because their needs were met with little to no effort of their own. This type of attitude will spill over into their workplace, into their relationship and eventually in their own children. However, there is hope. Recognizing the codependency and accepting it as a role in the dysfunctional family is the first step in breaking the cycle.
Children should learn through their own pace and we shouldn’t throw things at them that will be difficult for them to acquire. Students shouldn’t have so much power and authority put on them and their learning should come naturally. Every child is different and unique in their own ways and some children take longer to learn than others but we need to let the child have the chance to pick up things themselves at their own pace. Montaigne believes that no one should be pushed or forced to do anything they are not capable of doing. Montaigne also believes that wisdom and character are both important factors.
Barriers come in many forms, such as when key persons are doing observations and planning. The parents may lack in confidence to give any suggestions or feel that their contribution isn’t worth making at all; they may also not want to get involved in this. However practitioner should let the parents of the child take charge on the suggestion making, instead of the practitioners taking charge. This allows the parents to feel valued and respect being given such an important role, building the parents confidence as their suggestions have be taken into
According to Coles, parents have difficulty explaining ethics to their children because they don't want to shatter their kids innocence. They tend to keep them in a bubble so their kids don't grow up with bad experiences, yet they tell them what to believe in. “In many homes parents establish moral assumption, mandates, priorities. They teach children what to believe in, what not to believe in. They teach children what is permissible or not permissible” (61).
It’s time to get started.” (Dobson, 110) The letting go process is dreaded by most parents because it is a time where you have to stop being the "too- protective" parent and give your boy the freedom he deserves as an individual. This process can be seen as a good thing also because one is able to see the fruit of their labor and watch as their child grows and flourishes down the right path because of the parents teaching and lifelong lessons that they have passed down. Either way one thinks about it, the process must still be done. Boys will never stay little boys forever and once they start to believe that they are growing up they will take that mindset and run with it. Dobson stresses to not be afraid of that point in a boy's life when you must let them go but be proud and never stop caring or try to be close to your
It has been said that all the violence in the world would slow down if we showed our children love and attention. So does that mean give them everything they want and never punish them? What about special needs children is it appropriate to us corporal punishment on them? So many people say do not use spanking as a form of punishment children with special needs children. Some kids with special needs do not feel pain so to spank them would be pointless.
You are protecting them when you use your best judgment, even if that means they wont be able to do what everyone else is doing. Now a days it is so much more important to be a parent, then a friend. They have plenty of friends that will mislead them, and take them down the wrong path. They need parents to keep them on the straight and