The Story of “My Two Lives” by Jhumpa Lahiri

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In the essay “My two lives,” Jhumpa Lahiri writes about her struggle with being Indian-American in the American society focusing on how being part of two cultures was confusing, stressful, and full of pressure from living two lives. After 37 years living in the United States, Lahiri understands why she felt as if she were living two lives during her childhood. She describes herself as an Indian- American because she moved with her family from India to the United States when she was very young. Being part of two different cultures for Lahiri was confusing and stressful and made her feel “short in both ends” (478). She also strives to reconcile her two selves as “like many immigrant offspring, I felt intense pressure to the two things loyal to the old world and fluent in the new approved of on either side of the hyphen” (478). The author’s main point is that she felt that she was under pressure to have “two lives” because she could not focus on one side or another. And reality doesn’t allow her to do that. Lahiri, as a young girl, had trouble balancing her American life with the Indian life at home. She explains how her parents had grown up in Calcutta, and they tried to continue practicing the same culture in America. They lived their daily lives like they were still in India: listening to Indian songs, speaking Bengali, wearing traditional clothes, and eating Indian food with their fingers. All these factors made her feel like an alien and ashamed. As an immigrant child she felt that she wasn’t living up to the pressure of being Indian or American and she tried to hide her home life from her American friends. Even if she spoke English fluently, her name, look, and the fact that she didn’t participate in social events like her friends made her seem less American. Her parents didn’t engage in any activities outside of their culture, which made it difficult for

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