Many of my values can also be linked to organizational values within our criminal justice system. One of my most important values is integrity. Integrity is doing the same thing whether you are in a group or completely alone; in other words, doing the right thing, all of the time, even if no one is watching. Criminal justice integrity is especially important in police work. It is an essential value for officers to maintain even if they are trying to fit into the subculture of law enforcement.
Barriers come in many forms, such as when key persons are doing observations and planning. The parents may lack in confidence to give any suggestions or feel that their contribution isn’t worth making at all; they may also not want to get involved in this. However practitioner should let the parents of the child take charge on the suggestion making, instead of the practitioners taking charge. This allows the parents to feel valued and respect being given such an important role, building the parents confidence as their suggestions have be taken into
If they had low self-esteem this could mean that the child/ young person may be facing further abuse in their parenthood as they are very defenseless. If someone has been abused from a child it may mean that they could possibly never reach their full potential. This would be due to depreciation that they had faced and possibly end up making them feel powerless to take on a role which would consist of obligation. Not being able to have relationships with people in the future, making friends as a child and finding a husband/partner once in parenthood. Self-harm would make the service providers very mistrustful as the pain imposed on them by themselves is showing as the pain they are facing at some other point with someone else.
For some reason the adult child feels as though they have the same rights to the household as their parents do. With this sad reality, comes the enabling parent who has become overly dependent on their young adult emotionally, thus stifling the independence of their child. This is what happens in a co-dependent household. The codependent parent fails to realize that it is the responsibility of the parents to teach their children to teach independence and responsibility. Enabling your adult children will only cripple them.
Therefore In this essay I intend to put across both side of the arguments and then conclude with my own personnel opinion. Some people are against smacking children because the research evidence shown is overwhelming; smacking children is an ineffective way to manage children's behavior and damages their development. We have laws that protect adults from being assaulted by other adults however many people still believe that smacking children is a legal form of discipline. Is this therefore not ironic? As an adult can be protected by violence but a child does not have the same right.
Also, to respect and love your parents. The parents should govern their children. To restrain them in such a way and to not govern out of wrath and anger, for that could provoke their children to act out. A lot of their principles and practices come from their religion,
If spanking shows no effect on my kids then I may start to take away their electronics because that is what society is so centered around today. If my kids are anything like me they will discover other things to do if their “toys” are taken away from them but with the added pain from spanking, kids will realize that its just not worth it. So I do believe spanking is a very effective was of punishing your kids if done correctly. I can see where parents frown upon spanking children because it can be see as abusing your kids but only if done incorrectly. A couple hits with a dry switch that only stings on impact will do the same effect if not more of one than using your hand.
Parents put to much trust in their children to make the right decision. You are expecting them make the right decision, in a situation they have learned about on television. What is right to a child, tends to be what is immediately gratifying, and self serving. It is not an insult to not trust your child. You are protecting them when you use your best judgment, even if that means they wont be able to do what everyone else is doing.
“You know our agreement Sir” Contradictions of appropriate parent child relationships in She Stoops to Conquer Healthy relationships consist of being on the same page with the other person. From a parent’s standing point, he or she expects their child to respect them, communicate and understand his or her boundaries. It is hard to have a good relationship with one’s child, visa versa, with the parents, if there is no effort put into it, which can be the last thing one wants to happen, because that is a bond that can not be broken. Good relationships lead to good things with one’s family, because there should not be negative standards. It is important to have a supportive and trusting relationship.In the text, it is portrayed by Goldsmith that the success or downfall of a parent-child relationship relies on both individuals.
Parents always want the best for their children, no doubt about that. However, sometimes when they give children too much pressure, the kids might strongly rebound, which leads to a lot of disputes and relationship breakdowns. Children often want to do the opposite of what they were told because they feel like they were not accepted by their parents, they feel like their parents don’t think they were good enough, that’s why parents want to control them. However, there must be a better way to solve this problem, which is respecting each other and comprehending each other’s opinion. By finding the balance in one another, parents can be the guiding light for their children to their interest and success.