The Causes of High Divorce Rates

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The Causes of High Divorce Rates Paula Gray Lemons Regis University Instructor: Eleanor Binnings Course: EN200XP72- Essentials of Writing Abstract One issue facing marriages is the high divorce rates. The high divorce rates are the same whether the couples are Christians or not. Considering this, this paper will discuss three significant causes of high divorce rates: 1) lack of effective communication, 2) the use of sex as a control mechanism and 3) selfishness (seeking one’s own personal benefit) in marriage. The Causes of High Divorce Rates Introduction If you had a formula that would eliminate or lower the high divorce rates, would you use it? Would you consider addressing the causes of divorce prior to marrying even if it meant not going through with the wedding? Depending on which source one uses, the estimated divorce rate is to be between forty to fifty percent today. According to the Enrichment Journal on the divorce rates in America, “the divorce rate in America for first marriage is 41%; the divorce rate in America for second marriage is 60%; the divorce rate in America for third marriage is 73 %”,( Dennis Franck). In order to understand divorce, one needs to understand marriage. For this paper, marriage is defined as the merging of two individuals into a single entity, and divorce is defined as when the single entity is no longer functioning as one and wants to separate back into its individual parts. What causes this unmerging? Three significant causes of high divorce rates are: 1) lack of effective communication, 2) the use of sex as a control mechanism and 3) selfishness (seeking one’s own personal benefit) in marriage. Lack of Communication The first significant cause of a high divorce rate is the lack of effective communication. I discovered the impact that the lack of effective communication has on a relationship; as well as,
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