Luna Williams English 100 02/10/2014 Just Whom is This Divorce “Good” For? Divorce is a huge topic a lot of parents think about when they feel that there spouse is no longer compatible with them and also the fact that it’s not working out for reason only they will know. It may just be the fact that two people that were deeply in love just feel out of it because of no connection anymore. In the article “Just Whom Is This Divorce” Good” For? Written by Elizabeth Marquart talks about how divorce can cause children even from a good divorce go through it there selves when they get older, children also feel that they are to blame for their parents getting divorced and they lose all interest for other things, there is also a lot of controversy about which parent gets which day can just lead up to a huge custody battle for most.
Financial issues means difficulty in paying debts. Financial problems mostly occur when a country’s economy is bad (nnedv.org). People lose their jobs and convenience goods get expensive. Due to that people/partners are unable to pay their debts. Partners who have children, can’t pay for their children’s school fees and can’t afford to feed them, which puts the partners in a delicate situation.
Children are affected by the divorce more if the parents have custody hearings or move away from each other. The decision to terminate an unhappy marriage through obtaining a divorce is almost never an easy decision. It is usually reached only after other options and alternatives have been carefully considered and then rejected as non-viable
Divorce in America People often dream of a fairy tale romance and get married to what they believe are their soul mate. However, these stories do not always have beautiful endings. The numbers of individuals opting for divorce has been steadily increasing over the past years. Sometimes people tried to save their marriage by using marriage counseling, but not always work. Perhaps most of the time the only solution to living happily is by getting divorce.
On the other hand there that middle class of poor that knows nothing about the system or doesn’t have the resources to get a good lawyer they are screwed completely ruin your life and affecting some people around you. Several contemporary concerns impacting criminal justice professionals are, stress, finances, the economy, their family and friends, health and job security. I say stress because so many things can stress a person out this line of work. It can be the hours of the job, the clients, the court cases, etc. Finances can be a major worry especially if your budget is tight and so is your money.
Although these are the traditional wedding vows, times have changed, the exchanging of these vows are no sacred and do not often last. In America, over half of the marriages result in divorce. The impact on a family is detrimental to the family’s substance, the whole being of the extended
The exceptions to the moral wrongness of cheating are based on the circumstances surrounding the individual and not on the particular consequences. Dmitry and Anna are both married to different people that they are not in love with or no longer in love with leaving them both in a marriage with no intimacy. When the person you are cheating with is also in a situation where they are miserable in their current relationship it develops a strong reason for adultery to be justified. At the beginning of the story it may have seemed Anna was engaging in an illicit relationship with Gurov for no real reason, until the end of the story when she realizes herself that Gurov “was her husband truly–they were truly married, here in this room–they had been married haphazardly and accidentally for a long time”(Oates 460). The circumstances that surrounded Anna’s adultery lead her to the conclusion that her husband made her unhappy and she did not love him but there was no way she could be with the one she loved,
It also affects the relationship with other family members. Kids often distance themselves from everyone and do not include themselves in family activities. They feel no one could possible understand what they are going through. When it comes down to a relationship with the opposite sex, trust is often a big issue. Children many times also seek out a significant other that reminds them of their incarcerated parent to fill that void.
Everyone breaks the laws of the bible at some point you are suppose to love honor and obey the one you marry until death do you part but a lot of people break that rule and get divorced. Also as I said who are we to judge someone of who they love they can't help who they fall in love with also god forgives everyone don't you think that means those who marry the same sex. People should be able to marry whoever they want to marry even if that means the same sex. If you love someone so much and are willing to take those vowels in gods church then you should marry anyone you want to marry. Who are we to discriminate against gay marriage many people see it as 2 people of the same sex when people should really look at it at a different point of view.
The welfare system in America is broken. It was originally designed to help people that cannot find jobs or cannot work but that is not exactly what it is doing. Not all people who are on welfare really need it and it is causing some people to be denied. Many families do not want to rely on the federal government because they do not want to be looked at as poor or that they cannot provide for their own family without extra help from others. A lot of people lie about what they do and do not do and conservatives and liberals ignore it when they know what is happening.