The Best Way To Learn About Life Is By Listening

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Question: the best way to learn about life is by listening to the advice of family and friends. It is undeniable that we learn about life from not only direct experiences but also indirect experiences through listening to the advice of friends and family. Although personal experience can be more direct and vivid so that it would last longer than indirect experiences, I believe that better way to learn about life is to listen to the advice of family and friends. The rationale behind is that personal experience is too limited to learn about life. Another reason is that family and friends can provide us more useful advice. First of all, experience that we can actually go through is so limited that we can hardly learn every aspect of lives from this. The basic reason that people read books is to gain valuable lessons and wisdom by indirectly experiencing through main characters in the book since people can not experience everything within their limited given time. Like this, we can learn a lot from advice of others. For example, the advice from my father greatly helped me to choose my future dream. Since I have little information regarding to job world, it was really difficult for me decide what to do in the future. However, my father, who has been actually living in the competitive job world, could help me realize the reality of choosing job in the society. As a result, I could easily decide what to major in the university since I became to have a confirm understanding of job world. Secondly, family and friends can give us more useful advice. Family and friends are people who know and understand us. It is sometimes very hard for us to view ourselves objectively. On the other hand, other family members or friends can understand and judge the situation we are involved in a very objective view, meaning that they know what advice is necessary for us at what time.
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