Socialization and Impression Management

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When it comes to personal socialization, friends and school contribute greatly. They both aid tremendously in shaping our own personalities, whether we think so or not. One of the biggest factors on this throughout school is popularity. Popularity, in my opinion, can be defined as how well known and/or liked you are. It has a lot to do with “fitting in”, and hanging out with the “in crowd”. In my own high school, the popular crowd wasn’t hard to pick out, as cliques throughout my school were rather obvious. I would describe those with the most popularity were usually either attractive, very intelligent, entertaining/funny, athletic, or often a combination of those. For the most part, these people were fairly nice, although didn’t often hang out with those less popular outside of school. I can say that I relate to the music video for “Popular” by Nada Surf. In fact, I believe that the majority of people can. Although I had my group of friends, I was one to sort of bridge gaps between these cliques, as I associated with people from many different ones. I do believe that teachers play a large part in the popularity if certain students. Most teachers show favoritism to certain students, especially those who are already popular (simply boosting their popularity even more). Popularity definitely shapes your high school experience, in my opinion. What you do, what you become interested in, and your outlook on the “high school experience” has a lot to do with the crowd you hang out with. Looking back on my high school experience, I do believe that I sacrificed my “true self” in some ways in order to fit in with the popular students. In fact, I think that anyone who denies doing that, at least in some way or at some point, is lying. Impression management is manipulating how you present yourself to be perceived by people. In the music video for “Online” by Brad Paisley,

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