Sex Without Love by: Sharon Olds

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Poetry, I believe is the hardest type of writing to depict, because it can be interpreted in so many ways, the writer could mean one thing, and the reader could read it completely different from how the writer actually wrote it. Even though sometimes this is the case, I have done some thorough research to make sure my understanding of this poem is correct. I derived from this poem that, what Sharon Olds was trying to bring across in this poem was to express her thoughts towards people who have sex without love. I grabbed this line from the beginning of her poem she asked this question: “How do they do it, the ones who make love without love?”. As different thoughts rolled through my head after reading her first line, my first train of thought began with this: The worlds culture has changed and many things have become acceptable in peoples eyes, but one thing is still said to be true you cannot be intimate with a person and forget the intimacy that took place with that person. Now I need to make something very clear at the beginning of this paper, there are many people in this world that take sex for granted and have self gratifying sex. When Sharon says at her poem, “These are the true religious, the purists, the pros, the ones who will not accept a false Messiah, love the priests instead of the God.”, this means that they love sex but not the person.” She is explaining that there are people who choose to have selfish sex. Some people could say that they forgot their experience, that the intimacy meant nothing to them, maybe it meant nothing, but are the images really forgettable? I also need to take the time to inform you that I am not experienced in the area of sex, nor do I have a clue about what it is like to have sex without love, nor do I know what its like to have sex with a lover. I am a virgin to make this a little clearer. Even though I might not know
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