Sex Before Marriage

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Sex before marriage is very often a touchy subject. However, I feel that sex before marriage is a very important subject that is not brought up and talked about enough. There are many different viewpoints brought to the table when talking about this particular subject. Although I have heard many good arguments from people both pro- and anti- sex before marriage, I have yet to change my stance on this matter. I strongly believe that people should not have sex before marriage. Aside from all of the risky consequences, it is an intimate bond you should only want to share with one “special” person. It has been scientifically proven that there is no such thing as emotionless sex and I think that emotions are very often mixed up among other things. Because I have been told by many people, that I know personally, that they should have waited till they were “in” love and married to have had sex. I do not feel as though there is any reason to rush. I have also been told that sex is not as “oh so amazing” as peers and the media world make it out to be. From my point of view, as a virgin, I do not feel as though I am missing out on anything that is not worth waiting for. Honestly, that Is one thing I do not understand. If so many people, including the media, are making sex seem so great, why is it seen as something not at all worth waiting for. I do not understand why you would not want to wait until you are “prepared,” physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially, instead of just “feeling ready”. From a pro- sex before marriage point of view, one might argue that it is a positive thing for you to have sex before marriage. Stating that it will “prepare” you for later in life, such as marriage. One might also say it will prevent you from being nervous, or at least as nervous, and you will better know what to do when the time comes. Many also seem to believe that the
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