Sense Of Self, Feelings And Thoughts.

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Sense of self, feelings and thoughts. At one point in a person's life, one stumbles with the question of who I am. Our identity changes often over the years – from childhood through the teenage years, then we identify with our career orientation, then we go into relationships, maybe parenthood, then on through those busy years toward midlife and then the empty nest, forward to our senior years. However, despite the tendency of man to evolve and transform itself, there are certain basic truths about one 's identity that remains fairly permanent . The said basic truths form the core of the person 's self-identity and this core is shaped and influenced by several factors that the person comes into contact with regularly and becomes a part of his /her daily existence and functioning. Mostly we identify with outward expressions of ourselves – our career, our family, our looks, our clothes, our home and possessions, our class, our education – all of these things reveal some aspects of our identity to a certain extent. According to an analysis of Walker Percy's, "A Short Quiz", which comes from “Lost in the Cosmos: The Last Self-Help Book” (1983), the concept of self is ambiguous and elusive. Walker Percy's main implication is that the self cannot be conclusively defined. Or to put it another way, it can be defined in an infinite number of ways, but none of which are fully conclusive. As Percy points out, this can be very troubling because we have been ourselves for our entire lives, "you have spent a lifetime with yourself, live in the Century of the self, and therefore ought to know yourself best of all."(A Short Quiz 3) He conveys the idea that we really don't know ourselves at all. Percy gives a few examples of this phenomenon. We can identify ourselves with the horoscope of any astrological sign. There are sixteen theories of the personality, and no one seems to
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