Secondary Families Essay

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Second Round Family is defined as “a group of people who are related by blood, marriage, or adoption” and is a major part of American society. The American family has it traditions and has many different ways of being branched off. A family tree usually has the eldest members of the family at the top and those people are usually the grandparents. But what happens when the tree is cut and the grandparents become parents to the grandchildren. Many factors have resulted in grandparents raising their grandchildren and the views of this differ between sociologist, psychologist and economist. In American traditional families, the household is structured around the married couple. This insists of the “breadwinner” the husband and the “homemaker” the wife (Bishop). Together they will build the family and the husband will continue to go out to work while the wife stays home to raise the children and keep the home clean. In the household the man was the head of house (Bishop). In the family, the grandparents are the parents of either the mother or the father of the child. They are the secondary parents of the family more of an overseer. The grandparents in a traditional family have the roles of being fun and loving, occasional caretakers, and family historians (Pinson-Millburn). The role of primary caretakers goes to the immediate parents (Bishop). Yet in today’s society things have changed in this aspect. Many children are raised by their grandparents for a number of different reasons. The parents may be addicted to drugs and the effects of them can affect the children the most (Pinson-Millburn). Some children may even be born with birth defects. Some parents are or have been incarcerated. The children may begin to have emotional and behavioral problems, or become victims of stereotypes in their society due to the isolation from family members (Pinson-Millburn). In some
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