Romantic Love Helping Morality

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To say that romantic love is a moral issue, is to say that by being in a romantic relationship your individual morals may be effectively changed or impeded, thus your moral obligations to society may not be upheld. Though love itself cannot be an obligation because if we must do something, we must be able to carry out that duty, as we are not able to be in a romantic relationship whenever we want it then it cannot be obligatory. So as love is then a decision in which an individual may consciously or at some level unconsciously make or choose not to act upon, morality should be a great influence in determining their decision. ‘The fundamental requirement of love is to raise the beloved above all others and to give her a privileged status in our life…The fundamental requirement of morality in contrast is to treat all persons as having equal worth and to justify all special treatments of a person by reference to universally valid principles’. From this statement it could be said that an individual will abandon their obligation to morality for romantic love. However romantic love and the ideals of moral principles such as Consequentialism and Kantian ethics could coexist, enabling both moral obligations and their duty to their beloved to be fulfilled. The question being does romantic love fit into a morally obliging life? To answer this we must consider if romantic love is acceptable under the principles of the moral theories previously stated. Consequentialism is a theory that is based on producing the best possible consequences through our moral actions. ‘It claims that an action is right if, and only if, it yields the best possible consequences from among the available options’. So does romantic love produce good outcomes for both the individual or for society? Generally speaking love will produce outcomes such as happiness, euphoria, good environments for
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