The listener should say what they are feeling only if it is beneficial to the relationship or to the person seeking help. When a listener displays this quality of being genuine it is most likely the seeker will become congruent as they have probably spent along time denying their feelings or not been allowed to say what they are feeling, to be congruent is to take responsibility acknowledge your feelings beware of them, then start to deal with stuff. Unconditional positive regard is respecting the help seeker as a unique being or anyone for that matter, to my believe, accepting them for who they are, this does not mean we have to agree with peoples behaviour or agree to their believes, just to accept the person; is being non-judgemental. Along with the show of genuineness and unconditional positive regard from the listener the seeker will feel comfortable within themselves, develop trust in the relationship and begin to open up, explore and start to move forward. The third quality required within this relationship is to be able to Empathise this is not to be confused with sympathy or pity, which would be to show sorrow or sadness, this would not help the seeker to progress and move on.
Why people stop being friends. A friend is a person who shares feelings, takes care of others. Friendship is really important with people’s lives and it makes people’s lives in general more emotional, happier, and better. So It is always unpleasant when a tight and long friendship suddenly comes to an end. A feeling that you have lost something important appears and causes sadness and soul emptiness.
Firstly the argument in the passage is that personal relationships are necessary to develop impartiality towards acquaintances or strangers. This is said to be because if someone never develops personal ties with their family and friends they will not learn the necessary skills to become a moral person. E.g. if a child is not shown how to have close personal ties with family
But a drawback would be that you wouldn't be living for goodness or for a deity, you would be living for yourself and this could seem selfish to some. But if you are really doing things that you feel are truly right, then it shouldn't seem selfish. I know that people don't always choose the right decision in life though. That would be
1.1 explain how a working relationship is different from a personal relationship A working relationship should remain on a professional level. It should never become personal no matter how well you may get on with your client, and to certain extents your colleagues as well. In a social care setting, there are certain guidelines that you must respect and obey that soon highlight the difference between a working and personal relationship. An example of these guidelines is to never promise to keep a secret! Unlike in a personal relationship or friendship, you are inclined, even obliged to do this in order to show your loyalty to a friend.
Never agree to keep secrets, never buy the individual presents and do not see the individual in your own personal time. This could lead the relationship into a personal relationship; attachment issues and conflicts. Consistency is the key to maintaining the relationship and positive reinforcement. Also the use of incentive programmes to support the individual in areas that they may be having difficulty in. When an individual is moving on it is important that you take an active role if you are the person’s keyworker.
You can’t pray a lie-I found that out” (Twain 227). Huck is trying to follow what society views as normal. Although he attempts to pray for it, he knows he cannot because it is not what is right. The reason Huck is unable to pray what he wanted is because, in his heart, he knows it is wrong. He knows that he should not turn in Jim because Jim has done nothing but help Huck in his adventure and has done nothing wrong to Huck.
CHAPTER EIGHT In chapter eight, Siddhartha learns that the skills that used to be useful to him – meditating, fasting, and losing his sense of self—have been long lost due to his infatuation with worldly goods and desires. In addition, while reflecting on his life, he realizes just how many paths he has taken in his life, and how much he has changed as a person throughout the course of his life. In my life, I’ve learned that you must schedule some time to do absolutely nothing. Without a break from all the busyness that the world possesses, a person will surely go insane. Everyone needs some designated time to relax, where they are required to do absolutely nothing.
You get rushed and preoccupied, and you stop taking the perspective of the other person, precisely because the two of you are so close.” Being rushed and not going in depth in conversations and only making short statements is a key in miscommunication. “Communication is complex; it requires a number of skills and both ongoing learning and practice to improve our skills. Misunderstandings occur frequently, and they can cause problems in relationships.” (Sole, 2011). Having my husband not understand what I mean by such a short statement is something that I expect since he is my husband. Yet I would not expect someone that isn’t as close to me to immediately grasp what it is I am trying to get across.
When life seems to be at it's most stressfull, I try to practice slowing down, and finding thoughts that bring me back to a place where I can be calm. Another lesson my grandfather taught me about life was, that it was okay to accept help from others. I will admit at times he was very stubborn about accepting help himself, yet he was always happy to have someone by his side to help him along the road. I often think back about all the wonderful times I would have missed with my grandfather had he been in a hurry. I would never have heard so many wonderful stories, and I wouldn't have learned many of the life lessons that he taught and shared with me.