Results: Having a parent with an ongoing lifetime problem of alcohol is a major factor in determining how an adolescent will respond. If both of the parents are alcoholic the outcome is even more severe. | | 11. Summary/Narrative: Parent alcoholism is a risk factor for alcohol and drug use disorders in offspring and there remains significant heterogeneity in the outcomes of children that have alcoholic parents. Daughters are apt to be more vulnerable than sons to become addicted to alcohol and drugs.
Divorce has many effects on children and however the parents adjust to the divorce relates to how the child will adjust. Divorce can change negative effects on the development of a child. It can affect A child’s feelings, behaviors, emotions, communication skills, and health (Lewis, 1999) The effects can be long lasting into their adulthood. It is important that parents communicate and help their children on how to cope with a divorce. Divorce affects each member of the family which children experience it differently.
Then we went back home and my stomach was still aching. My stomach ached so much that I couldn’t even go to school for a week. After staying at home for one week my parents took me to another doctor because they had a feeling that my stomach ache wasn’t just a stomach ache. After the doctor examined my body, the doctor said that I suffered from appendicitis. The next morning at seven o’clock I had an appendectomy at Bungsu Hospital.
Even children are finding it easier to come across. Caffeine is being found in more substances than people realize and it seems to be all the things children favour. Examples are chocolate bars, most pops, and these so called “energy” drinks that seem to be so popular. It is becoming so bad that it seems like these items shouldn’t be sold to minors anymore. Parents need to take better precautions to benfefit their childrens future health.
This story begins with the most innocent of domestic scenes. Mary Maloney, a housewife in her sixth month of pregnancy, is waiting for her husband to return home. It is a Thursday night, and they usually eat out. When Patrick Maloney does come home, he is strangely moody and takes a stronger drink than usual. Mary tries to divert him with the usual domestic comforts but to no avail.
My brother and I stayed at my Grandpa’s house most of the time she was up there mostly only going home to sleep and get ready for school the next day, it was weird and confusing but my grandpa was good at getting our minds off of things and keeping our spirits up when he needed to. While my grandmother was in the hospital, my brother and I didn’t get to go see her, we were either too young to go in or my parents didn’t think we should see her that way, I can’t remember. When she finally came home, they said the disease was gone but she was still very sick. She looked completely different and she was very weak. They had started her on chemotherapy, and from what I understand
Her friends eventually gave up on her and stopped caring about being her friend. She stopped shopping with her mom on Wednesday nights, and spent much more time in her room listening to loud and depressing music. Little did everyone know what she was thinking about in her room... Lindsey found out that her parents were going away to New York for a business trip for a week, and she would be home alone. Her parents asked their neighbour Charlie to keep an eye on her because she was going through a peculiar phase, they asked him to check in on her at dinner and around 10:30 PM to make sure that the doors were locked before she went to bed. When her parents went away to New York, Charlie came over and she acted perfectly normal and Charlie told her that he wasn't going to be checking in at 10:30 because he was going to be out, and if she needed anything Lindsey could call his cell phone.
Most kids do not want their parents to divorce. A bad marriage can become worse when kids are involved, especially during a divorce. Kids are always the people in the middle watching and listening even from a distance. The children in a bad divorce case are asked to choose a side if not one would be chosen for them. Some kids feel betrayed by their separated parents.
“When a child forfeits her childhood and adolescence to take on the responsibilities for a parent, her capacity to enjoy her life as a young person, develop close friendships, and cultivate shared interests is sacrificed.” (Wallerstein, Lewis, and Blakeslee 9). When adults lean too heavily on their children, those children start to focus on taking care of their parents and may neglect their own needs. Essentially, children start to take on the role of the parent.
This can cause a child to be confused and stressed because of the love the child has for both parents. Those all create a challenging new family circumstance in which to live. For children, divorce can be negative emotion suck as bitterness, stress, sad, confusing, emotional pain, fear, feeling abandoned, feeling betrayed and loss of self-esteem. At any age, kids may feel uncertain or angry at the prospect of mom and dad splitting up. When their divorced parents keep on fighting.