Argumentative Essay: There’s a Reason Why Your Kids Aren’t Playing – They’re Not Good Enough When it comes to kids and sports, there always seems to be a big debate going on. Today’s most asked question is about playing time. Should all of a team’s players get it, or should only the best of the best play? And clearly, when you play to win, you need your best men (or women) to get the job done. Let’s face it, some kids are just better than others.
Sports: Parental Involvement in Youth Sports O'tonya Winchester English 101/RCA 021, Fall Semester, Section B Professor L. Wymer November 9, 2012 Parental involvement in youth sports is beneficial and detrimental because of emotional involvement, perfectionism, and expectations, which has a big effect on young athletes. A parent’s involvement in a child’s life shows that they are supportive and want to be there for their children. Sometimes parents get too supportive and take control of their children’s lives. Parents should be there for their kids instead living their lives through them. There are positive and negative effects of young athletes based on their parents involvement.
Now, more and more children don’t like to listen to the other people. When someone is talking to them, they won’t care what he/she is talking about, and they will continuous to play their game. In many parents’ eyes, they will think their child still younger and like to play. Actually, if parents don’t correct their children’s attitude for listening, that will make their children don’t know how to listen to the other people anymore. Learning to how to listen is a core; it should be a part of children’s education.
Because they are more interested into the newest type of technology. If children big in size and they get bullied for it, they are going to feel very self-conscious. If children join in on fitness they are going to be healthier and are going to feel better about their selves. The sport expenses are very high these days and make it hard for parents to put the children in a sport as there are no cheap sports and/or activities. Due to the expenses of food and school it is difficult for parents to pay for sports.
As a parent I want her to play the entire game, but as the coach I know that I cannot do that and therefore have to play the better kids as much as it upsets her. I try really hard to consider all the children and give them all equal playing time. She may not understand right now why her mommy is being “mean” but I know as she grows up she will understand what it means to be a team player. We all have tough decisions to make in life, the key is to find a balance and stick with it no matter how hard it may
Since parents went through it they know how most things will turn out if you make a certain mistake or decisions. For the most part growing up is something that can't really be taught. There are so many different times in your life where you are forced to grow up even if you don't want to. For instance, when some kids get out of high school, some don't want to leave from that protective shell but others do. In high school your parents are still taking care of you and if you mess up they will be there to help you out and for some kids it's hard to leave that shell.
Family Dynamics (Comparative Essay) Parents raise their children to either live vicariously through them or want to have them follow their own path in life. The stories "The Charmer" by Budge Wilson and "Brother Dear" by Bernice Friesen, show both ways of parenting which influences the children to go against them. Both stories show that each set of parents display conflict with their children. Although one story focuses on how parenting is not hard enough and influences the children negatively, the other story displays how the parenting is too hard and it also affects the children negatively. Each story shows sibling rivalry because of the parenting style and there is sibling rivalry because the brothers in the stories get all the attention and
One parent would tell her one thing, and then the other one would tell her to do the complete opposite; she never knew what to do. If parents are telling a child two different things to do, then the child will not know which to choose. Parenting is about working together, not making the child choose between the two. Andrew’s parents are just like Brian’s parents except they wanted him to be a star athlete. He wrestles and his father wants him to win every match he wrestles, so he stresses over matches and commits all his time to sports.
However, the main competition is for the child’s affection. The competition is intensified due to the child being attached to both the parent and the provider. Another emotion is insecurity. Parents can feel insecure then they perceive that they are not number one in their child’s eyes. Insecurity can also mean fear of abandonment or fear of being replaced.
The vast majority of our youth are involved in sports but many do not know how sports directly affect those involved. I chose this topic because sports play a major role in every child’s life. Becoming a parent is one of the hardest tasks one does in their lifetime. Deciding what things are good for your child and what things are bad for your child’s development is very nerve racking and difficult. This paper discusses both the positive and negative aspects that sports can have on a child’s development.