Freddie Ramos We can all agree that friends make our lives better. They encourage us when we’re feeling down and make us laugh. Friends make us feel good, almost anyone would agree. But the article by Tara Parker-Pope, “What Are Friends For?” goes beyond this simple point. The article presents ample evidence that having friends not only makes us happier, it also makes us healthier, both mentally and physically.
Reading this poem lifts the weight of the world off of the readers shoulders by making him think about what make him happy. Charles is saying is the only thing that matters is happiness. Anyone can be happy it’s your own choice. This author has a very healthy outlook on life. This poem is very positive.
-- Stephen Covey If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life, which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. -- Henry David Thoreau Your success and happiness lie in you. External conditions are the accidents of life; it’s outer trapping. The great, enduring realities are love of service. Joy is the holy fire that keeps our purpose warm and our intelligence aglow.
These are only some behaviors that you may see in people to pinpoint their growing harshly judged flaws. Self-doubting and constantly apologizing for redundant events can also be behaviors that point towards an insecure person. Being indecisive or putting yourself down are also behaviors of insecurity. Some people have nervous laughs to expresses there uncomfortableness, insecure people can also be very self-sacrificing, always giving up there spot by putting others before themselves. Insecurities can turn people into dependable persons, who confide in their partners for reassurance of the relationship constantly, insecure people also have a hard time asking for favors or for help, probably too shy to ask for any help that they might
I believe I am able to bring change and improvement to myself and other by being me. I enjoy making people laugh at themselves when they do silly things, instead of beating themselves up inside. The Affiliative Style measures the degree of commitment to forming and sustaining satisfying relationship. In addition, it represents a need for social interaction and interpersonal contact. A few of the characteristics are: a tendency to value relationships above all else, a need to build relationships that are meaningful and reciprocal, strong, well-developed interpersonal skills and a tendency to motivate others using genuine praise
Every one of us has a different view on what we find funny. Taking life too serious can really damage a sense of humor. Laughter is beneficial to one`s health, and can be the best medicine for the mind, body and soul. Developing a sense of humor can be attained quite easily by being able to laugh at yourself when you make little mistakes. This also makes other people comfortable to be around you when you can show a vulnerable side of yourself.
This book completely opens your eyes and allows you to actually make changes in your life and mind so you can live a happy healthy life, with high self esteem. The first chapter is called “What is Self Esteem?” it describes what self esteem is and how it effects the way one lives and how they function in the world. Having a positive or negative out look on life it creates a cycle. For instance having high self esteem you have more confidence, which will allow you to have positive thoughts about yourself, and then it will result in you having desirable behaviors such as working to achieve a goal. Having a negative cycle it can cause you to give up on yourself and with feelings of inadequacy and worthlessness.
One is not able to avoid stressors in their lives, hardships, frustration, anxiety, sadness and anger so again, it is very easy for them to quickly engage in old habits. Therapy is essential because it will offer advice and suggestions on how to manage difficult situations more positively and will give an outlet when faced with alcohol again. It can provide resources like AA, and family or marriage therapy so those around you can also be supportive. It is challenging, however it can change your life forever. The outcome can be the most rewarding thing anyone will ever do for themselves and their
20Oct11 Money and Relationships "Often, silence is a shield for the shame, guilt and anxiety people feel about their own ways with money(47)." Olivia Mellan, author of Men, Women and Money, explains how money can be an emotional barrier that drives couples apart. When two people become a couple, whether they just live together or get married, they form a new correlation with their money. One person will earn more, inevitably given the upper hand on financial matters. Others will enter into the relationship with debts but are ashamed to mention it.
A happy family generates good citizens and good human beings. In a healthy atmosphere each person complements each other and in an unhealthy atmosphere everybody feels suffocated and stuck. So work on building a pleasing atmosphere and keep on